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Basic Instinct: Free Seduction Tips For Men

Feb 29, 2008
Think about it: you are driven by emotions, not logic!

You think you bought your home according to your budget? Just check your memory banks again: the chances are you went for the place that you fell in love with, even stretching your budget to get it.

The same may well be true of the car you drive & even the clothes you wear. Emotions tell us what we want; logic helps us work out how to get it!

When it comes to that overpowering drive, (yes, I'm talking s - e - x here), we aren't just driven by emotion, we go into a total trance! And for guys that is usually governed first and foremost by looks.

Before I reveal any of my free seduction tips, I want to set the record straight. I'm not about to suggest that you become a predator or a bed-hopper. But I did manage to seduce an awful lot of gorgeous women from ordinary dating sites while I was looking for new love.

I was a divorced, lonely middle aged guy thrown back into enforced bachelor-hood, and once I realised what I'd stumbled upon, I gave myself permission for logic to take a back seat! I had five glorious years before falling madly in love with a gorgeous Asian woman. But that's another story.

My ground rules were simple:

1. Do no one any harm. That meant no married women and no two-timing.
2. Keep everyone safe. Safe sex should go without saying, but I was also concerned that the women I met felt safe about the when, where and how of any meeting, and that I did too! Whilst I didn't expect to come across any axe-wielding ladies, there are a few nutters amongst the fairer sex too, so I made sure I never carried wallets full of notes or put any overt temptation in their way until I was comfortable that what they wanted from me dwelt beneath my clothing! (This may not sound like a free seduction tip - it's more like being your mother! But I really do think that throwing caution to the wind is, frankly, nuts!)

So what did I do?

Well, I figured out what all those lovely ladies were doing on internet dating sites to begin with. Although generalisations are always dangerous, I discovered that women who put themselves on dating sites have a slightly different agenda from the lady you might meet at the office or by "chance."

And no, it isn't that they want to jump into bed. They will, of course, but that isn't their priority. If ever there was a free seduction tip worthy of the mention it's this: don't talk about sex, even by innuendo, in your first email or even two! "Adult" dating sites are different, of course, but I'm not talking about those. I was genuinely looking for a relationship.

Here's what I figured out:

* They think they're lonely, but that's not their main problem.
* They say they want love, but they won't let that happen for a long time.

I struggled for a long time with this! I couldn't understand why they didn't jump at the offer I was making them. By definition, spending time with me would have ended loneliness instantly, and if I fell in love with them, they ran!

It was after twice wining and dining a particularly attractive blonde nurse that a penny dropped with a very loud "thunk!"

On both occasions, she'd run out on me after we kissed, (which she initiated the first time!)

The problem, I saw with stunning clarity, was that these women were afraid. They'd been hurt in love before. They saw men as the villains. Once I realised that, the rest was simply a matter of finding a formula that worked as an antidote.

I found it, and it worked like magic!
About the Author
Trevor Emdon is a self development author & coach. His free report, "How To Seduce A Woman Online In 10 Minutes" can be downloaded from http://www.10minuteseduction.com
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