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I Am Married To A Cheating Man

Mar 5, 2008
If you are married to a cheating man, you will have at least one "other woman" in your life.

Obsessive thoughts most likely permeate most of your days So Who Is This Girl? What is She Like Really? What does The Other Woman Have To Offer that I Do Not Have For My Husband?

And more importantly, why does this other woman want MY husband in the first place?

There is this social stigma to this "Other Women". They are loose, unethical women who prowl the nights out looking for easy prey to steal. Crap.

The fact is, there are really two types of "Other Women" - the ones that really DO want a man (that YOU happened to be married to unfortunately), and the women who really DON'T want him, they just enjoy occasional sexual companionship with him.

Let us talk first about The Other Woman that is NOT out to make your husband her own husband at all in the first place.

They are usually very busy, intelligent women who do not want a full-time relationship. Having a sexual affair with a married man is actually a preferred situation to having as compared to a full-blown relationship.

She needs a little attention, some companionship, and yes, sex of course. and your husband needs more attention, companionship and yes, more sex too.

Such affairs are not only about sex, but they are not nearly as highly charged emotionally as affairs that are had when your husband (and the Other Woman) fall in love over the heels with each other.

Now, the other type of Other Woman and your husband are involved emotionally with each other. She will feel as if she does want to be his (your husband) wife and yes, your husband will begin to believe that he wants to be with the Other Woman, too usually.

These women are not "bad" or unethical, nor do they really lack moral fortitude. You, the betrayed wife, just want to find an easy scapegoat.

You just need a person to blame your cheating husbands actions on.

Ladies, let us get real here. 99% of Other Women do not FORCE your husbands to stray and be with them in the first place.

These women simply accept what is being offered on the table, and for that one fact we should feel some bit of sadness for them.

When you accept emotional or sexual affection from someone who has vowed those actions to another, you are really selling yourself extremely short.

Regardless of what kind of problems the marriage had pre-affair, the infidelity of your husband is the fault of. well, your husband. Period.

WHY he did it may be something for the couple to deal with, but the act of actually DOING IT is the cheating husbands responsibility to begin with.

An affair is not the betrayed wife's fault, nor is it the Other Woman's fault(too). Put the blame where it deserves to be, even if you decide to KEEP HIM with you in the end.

Do not fool yourself into thinking that just because YOU decided to stay married to him in spite of the sexual affair, that he suddenly is not accountable for his own actions and behave as if nothing has happened at all.
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