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5 Great Steps To Getting A Girlfriend

Mar 16, 2008
Getting a girlfriend isn't easy for most guys. Most men don't know where to go to meet women, what they want from a woman, or even what they want from a relationship. But once you do find a great woman the advantages are great. You will be able to stop all this time waisting on women who aren't suitable for you. Were going to take a look at a 5 step system that will help you find your dream girl.

Step 1: What Do You Want From A Relationship?

The first thing you need to decide is what you are looking for in a relationship. What would your ideal relationship be like? How will this relationship effect your life? What are your relationship needs? If a woman doesn't meet your needs then she won't make a good girlfriend for you.

Step 2: What Kind Of Woman Do You Want?

When it comes to short term-flings you don't care about some of her flaws. After all, you aren't planning to stay with her for very long. But for a long-term relationship the little things do matter more.

You need to decide what sort of woman you want. Do you want a girl who has similar interests? Do you want a party girl? What sort of women should you avoid because you know you wont like them? These are the sorts of questions you need to ask yourself.

Step 3: Where Can I Meet Her?

If you keep your eyes open meeting attractive women is very easy. They can be found just about anywhere over the course of your day. You really don't need to limit yourself just to bars. The easiest way to meet them is to go to places where your type of woman can be found. If your type goes to the beach then you should go to the beach.

Step 4: How Do I Approach Her?

This is super easy if you do it right. If you were taking dancing lesson would it be hard to approach a woman? No it wouldn't be. If you like to read and were at a bookstore would it be hard to approach a woman. No it wouldn't be. The hard part of course would be overcoming your fears. All you have to do is to say something that is related to the topic. For example, at the bookstore you could ask her opinion on a good book to read.

Step 5: How Do I Get Her Contact Information?

If you enjoy talking to her then you are going to want to see her again. I recommend that you try to keep the conversation going for awhile before you just try to get her number. This allows you to make a greater connection with her and allow for more flirting. When you feel the time is right it would only be natural for you to ask for her contact information. It will feel right for you and it will feel right for her since you are enjoying each other so much. Try something like this: "I want to see you again. Write your number down on this napkin."

Where To Go From Here

At this point moving forward you should be repeating the process. You don't put all your effort into one woman until you are at the relationship stage. This is why it is called dating. You need to see what is out there and what your options are. Feel free to let the women know that you are dating other women at this time. This shows them that you respect them and that you are a man of integrity.
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Learn how to approach, talk, and attract amazing women by being a charming man. Learn more at How to approach women to get over your fears of meeting attractive women.
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