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Nice Guys Don't Get The Girl

Mar 16, 2008
Why does it seem like every time you are nice to a woman, gicing her flowers, buying her dinner, rubbing her feet, even walking her dog - you end up getting the line, "I only want to be friends"? Why is it that nice guys always finish last? Well - here is some news. There are rules in attraction and dating. You could - just maybe - be breaking some of them if your results are less than stellar.

There are rules to every game, and the game of attraction is no different. Each rule is important in itself - break them all and you will fail miserably with women. Learn them all - and you will party like a rock star.

Getting right to it - the first of these immutable laws is that Attraction is NOT a choice. I know you have probably heard dating advice experts like David Deangelo or Lance Mason say that before - but the thing is - it's true. Attraction isn't a choice. You don't look at someone and think, "Hey! I want to be attracted to HER!"

The second law of attraction - the attractive people have the pick of the pack. In particular - the hot women. They can almost any man they want, right? They know it. Men tell them! All the time! Beautiful women are approached CONSTANTLY. Every day - several times a day. So try to see this from HER point of view - if she gave her attention to every Chuck Schmuck that wanted it, she could not get through a day. So if you want her attention, you better earn it.

The third law is the one that takes the cake. Attraction does not make sense. Ok - so every girl you have ever been friends with dreams of Prince Charming who will sweep her off her feet, shower her in jewels and flowers, and treat her like a Princess. BUT - who is she dating? The jock with no neck that treats her like she is covered in pigskin. Why? because she is attracted to him, and attraction is not a choice!

Law four - STATUS is very important when it comes to ATTRACTION. Beautiful girls are rarely attracted to men perceived to be of a lower status than they are. Being the Alpha Male is a must if you are looking to attract women.

The thing is - women are on the lookout for the man that sparks that attraction in her. She may not even know what that "thing" is, but I do. That thing that women want is the man to be a real MAN. Not a wuss, not a wimp, not a "nice guy". That may seem counterintuitive - but let me ask you this - how's your current game plan working out for you so far?

What can you do to stop the attraction killing behavior? There are a few simple steps you can take to get your cajones back and get the girl. One - stop being NICE to attractive women. No compliments, no pleasing her, no gifts, no crap just to make her like you. As a matter of fact - bust on her a bit. Tell her she is a brat. Tell her she is being bad and you won't talk to her until she can be nice.

Two - tell an attractive women no at least once every single day. Doesn't have to be big - but when some hot woman asks you to hand her the newspaper at the coffee shop - tell her no. Of course, you can wait a few minutes while she grabs her jaw off the floor and then give her what she was asking for, but just bust her bubble if you can.

Last, but certainly not least - respect YOURSELF. Do not change who you are for anyone, least of all for a pretty face. Don't let her take control or push your buttons for any reason. Respect yourself and people will respect you as well.
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