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Going Out Alone Does Not Mean Going HOME Alone!

Mar 22, 2008
There seems to be a stigmatism attached to being alone on the dating scene. "Aloneness" is equated with loneliness - and loneliness with loser-dom. And who is going to go out with the lone geek sitting at the bar having a conversation with no one, right?

In actuality - hitting the bars and clubs by yourself can be a GREAT way to pick up women. For the men who can pull it off - it can really increase your pickup. I will tell you why

First - going out alone gets you over the notion that what other people think - matters. It doesn't. If you want to be a confident alpha male - you have got to be able to overcome the "group mindset". As a pack leader - YOU decide what the pack does, you do not follow.

Reason two - ever been embarrassed by a friend when you are out? Not gonna happen if you are alone! You don't have to worry about what your buddies are doing, saying, or even more importantly - you have no competition for the same girl.

Reason three is perhaps the most important reason. Say a beautiful woman asks you who you are at the bar with. This provides a great opportunity to show her your confidence and your cocky/funny attitude. You can reply to her in a confident and secure way, telling her, "I am here by myself - I don't need a babysitter in order to have a great time!"

In order to have this be effective, though, you have truly got to LIVE the confident, secure lifestyle of the alpha-male. Women can see through a faade, so you better have that self-assurance to back it up.

So - if you want to take this interaction to the next level, and REALLY peak her attraction when she asks who are you there with - you turn the question around. You say, "I'm here with you." So she will giggle a little and say, "OK, really, who are you here with?" At which point you say to her, "Man, I only met you 60 seconds ago and already you're trying to meet my friends? By the end of the week you're going to be over at my mom's house talking about our wedding. Slow down!"

Underneath this little by-play, though, what you are telling here is, "It doesn't MATTER to me who I am here with, I am confident and maybe just a little out of your league." Be cocky, funny and a trifle difficult, and see how attractive you suddenly become to women.
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