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What To Say And How To Say It

Mar 25, 2008
For most men, being romantic doesn't come naturally. In fact, as much as we try to "be cool", romance often makes guys down right nervous. It might be comforting to know, however, that those guys who seem to have it all together about women also get nervous sometimes when it's time to turn on the romance. Its just part of the way men and women are wired that girls naturally seem drawn to romance and guys have to work to get there.

But you can learn how to be romantic and how to know just exactly what the perfect thing to say is when the moments of romance are happening to you and your girl. And because you are thinking about it in advance, you will be prepared to say the right thing.

How often have you been watching some romantic movie with your girl and the handsome devil on the screen comes up with the perfect words to say that turns his girl into a love making machine? We are actually surrounded by romantic thoughts in the movies, on TV, in the songs we listen to and on the greeting cards we buy for Valentines Day or for birthdays. So is it a good idea to just memorize some romantic sayings and have your list on three by five cards ready to use when you want the date to make that transition from fun and light socializing to true romance and passion?

It's not cheating to get ready in advance to please your girl with sweet words of romance. When you think about it, few of us think romantic thoughts as we go through our days at work or at school. So when you change your focus from the mundane world to the world of romance on your date that night, you have to be able to shift how you think so romance naturally comes out of you. Keeping romantic ideas and verses written down to read through while you prepare for being with her gets your mind going down the right path so when you are with her, you know better how to tell her how you feel.

You know those slick lover boys know the tricks of how to talk romantic talk to a girl so you deserve to know them too. The trick isn't really a trick though because the best way to say romantic things is to speak from your heart. In fact, the last thing you want to do is just blindly repeat romantic words from your study notes hoping that will work. She will know you are faking it and it will not win her heart.

No, for you to give to your girl the gift of a very romantic thing to say, wait until what you want to say starts in your heart. Then express your feelings in a natural way, in the way you talk, not the way some song writer talks. Even if it isn't as poetic or full of romance words, if it comes from your heart, it will touch her and it will be genuine.

Your lover knows when you are being genuine and honest with her. Women have a sixth sense about such things so by simply using the feelings you already have, what you will say will be "just right" and it will take you into the romantic time of your date just like you want it to.

The key is to recognize that thought when you have it buried inside and to have the courage to let it out. Yes, for a guy saying romantic things is all about courage. So often you have thought "Wow, she is so beautiful right now" but you don't say it. Just as woman have an instinct for knowing honesty, men have one for keeping their real feelings to themselves. You have to overcome those feelings of hesitancy so you can speak your emotions of admiration, of love and even of sentimentality when they occur.

Maybe it will be that next time you and she are sharing an intimate moment and you feel all her affection coming your way that you want to stay in that moment forever. Don't let that moment pass but somehow find the path between the feeling inside and your mouth. But when the words come out and you experience the explosion of loving from your girl, you may never want to stop this flow of romantic words you can give to your sweetheart.

Now you know the secret that the "lover boys" know that instead of imitating other romantic people, you just turn your eyes inward and discover the romantic guy in you. He is already there. You just have kept him from saying anything to your girl. But by letting that part of you out and letting your lover know your real feelings, you will go from being nervous and clumsy at loving talk to being very good at it indeed.
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