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Three Steps You Must Follow to Attract a Faithful Man

Mar 26, 2008
Some people seem to have all the luck in relationships. Their spouse is loyal and devoted to them. Then there are your relationships. You can't remember the last time that you were in a relationship where he didn't cheat on you. Why is it that you always seem to pick the men that can't be faithful? And what can you do to stop falling into relationships with them? Three key factors can help you keep cheaters out of your life and allow Mr. Right to enter in.

Most importantly, you must gain the ability to be at peace with yourself. Many times, women look for a boyfriend to feel better about themselves or to evade being alone. Jumping into a relationship for one or both of these reasons rarely leads to a healthy relationship. Getting a boyfriend when you are unsure with yourself and what you want only complicates things.

Also, cheaters frequently prey on individuals who have low self esteem. Why? Usually because women with low self esteem are more likely to put up with more because they don't feel they deserve any better. It is so important that you feel good about yourself and know you deserve a great guy before allowing a man into your life.

Second, you need to know what type of guy you need in your life and what you have to offer to a relationship. Obviously, you want someone who is faithful. But often infidelity is a symptom of an already failing relationship. By knowing what you need in a partner and knowing what you can offer him, you will be able to enter into a relationship that has a high chance of success. Instead of constantly having to work on managing differences, you can spend the time helping each other and your relationship grow. This will help you turn towards each other for love and support instead of seeking it elsewhere.

As a final point, it is essential that you listen to your head, not just your heart. Frequently, women get into relationships with incompatible men because of their emotions. There naturally is something alluring about risky types of men or men who are not compatible. But allowing them into your life and then anticipating commitment or happiness with them is illogical. You must make a conscious choice when you chose your romantic partner. If you allow purely your emotions to guide you, you often choose wrong. But with improved self opinion and understanding of what you need, you can direct your heart to the man you can be happy with.
About the Author
Wendy Bridger, MSSW, teaches you how to stop the cycle of cheating boyfriends and find true love in "Get the Right Guy for the Real You." Learn how to make a soul mate companionship that lasts!
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