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Dating Tips for Men - Flake-Proof Your Date!

Apr 3, 2008
For most of us, one of the crappiest things that can happen is when you finally get a date with a really HOT woman, and then she cancels on you right as you are getting in the shower to get ready for the big event. That sucks sweaty socks. But it's a fact of life.

So what can you do to prevent a woman from flaking, or even to detect when she is ABOUT to flake? This is a question that MANY men have about dating, as avoiding the "flake" is one of the first things that men really need to learn how to do, and one of the foundation blocks of good dating advice.

One of the first things that you can do in order to avoid a woman flaking out on you is to tell her point blank that you HATE it when people do that. When you are setting up your date with her, whether it be a lunch date, coffee date or a genuine Friday night out, tell her, "Now listen, I REALLY hate it when people flake out on me, so I only want to make plans with you if you are CERTAIN you are going to be there."

Sometimes you might scare her off by saying that. That's ok. Better to scare her off in the beginning, to separate the wheat from the chaff so to speak, before you invest anything in it.

What you need to understand is that when you tell a woman that you hate flakes, what you are REALLY saying to her is that you respect yourself, and your time is valuable. In other words, you just may be a scarce commodity, and if she wants to get her hands on you, she better show up!

So then, on the day of the date, if a woman actually calls you and DOES flake on you - now is the time to use a little "Cocky Comedy" on her. Tell her, "Well thanks a lot for the NOTICE! When are you going to make this up to me?"

This is when you bust on her a little bit. Now don't do it in a really bitingly sarcastic way or let her know in any way that she has hurt you. That will turn her off and also lower your alpha male status in her eyes.

Now another method some of the PUAs of the day use to keep their Flake Out Percentage at an all-time low is to actually BE the one to flake. Counter-intuitive, I know. But, David Deangelo says that if you do that, what you are really doing is making ANOTHER date with her right there on the phone, and adding fuel to the fire of her anticipation. Which is ALWAYS a good thing.

Most of the time, your problems with women are created because of your own WUSSY behavior. I mean, you are never going to get to the point where you NEVER have trouble again. You may as well say that it's never going to rain again. But you CAN get to the point where you are on the ball and actually preventing most of the problems before they happen!
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