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Create the Life You Really Want With The Law of Attraction

Apr 9, 2008
As anybody who has lived and acknowledged the role that the Laws of Attraction have played in their lives, you will have formed your own theories or beliefs, either consciously or unconsciously, on what works or does not work. There are numerous psychologists and specialists who can take you through the subject, there are tomes written on the subject and then we all have mothers, teachers and friends who teach us about the Laws of Attraction - each in their own way. All this tends to get rather overwhelming and confusing and so we GO through life often not acknowledging the Laws of Attraction and the role that they play in our daily successes and failures, big and small.

Too many of us simply aren't aware of all the wonderful opportunities that continue to come our way. Letting them slip through our fingers though means we didn't get a firm grip on them to use them effectively. Karma is a very powerful thing and it simply means what goes around comes around. Therefore you want to live your life in a way that shows you treat yourself and others with respect. The more control you recognize that you have over your own life the happier you will be.

There are plenty of venues out there that can offer you an insight to changing your outlook on life. They include speakers, books, audio tapes, and testimonials. Regardless of what approach you take they all work to teach you the same thing - you have the power to control your life, so what are you going to make of it? What are your goals and how do you plan to achieve them? It is going to take time so you should be dedicated to implementing the Law of Attraction if you want it to work for you. Don't leave the importance of your future to negative energy and chance as you won't benefit from it at all.

You may not notice all of the negative energy around you because you have attracted other people with it as well. This is a well know fact of life so if you want to have positive people around you, offer them the same source of energy from yourself. If you are serious about making the Law of Attraction work for you, play attention to these guidelines. They can help you to have a more fulfilling life from now on.

1. What is it that you really want? Be very clear about this and then set goals to go out there and get it.

The big question that many people as though is how you get it - where does it come from? That is up to you and to the amount of effort you put into planning. It is important to understand that things aren't just going to happen for you. There has to be plenty of effort on your part. If you find a barrier in your path then you evaluate the situation and you continue to move forward. You have to use all of your energy to get to the final point of your goal. Don't underestimate how powerful the mind is when it comes to determining what will take place for your life. Take the time to really concentrate on what you want and it can happen.

The only way to make sure you can get what you want from life is to go after it. You must be willing to dedicate time to making it happen. This means you have to pay attention to what opportunities come your way.

2. You have to commit to being responsible for your own life in all aspects.

If you can't commit to being responsible all the time for what has taken place in your life in the past, present, and future, then you can't yet begin to effectively apply the Law of Attraction to your life. Instead of viewing what happens to you as the result of someone else or something else, you need to be taking a stand for yourself. Once you remove yourself from the role of victim you will become empowered in a way you have never been before. Learn from mistakes you have made and strive to make much better choices in the future.

In other words you will be in complete control and your life will feel richer. It will give you a great deal of self-confidence and help you take on the world.

3. You have to honestly and completely believe that you are the sole control of your life.

You don't need to know HOW it will work, you just have to believe you will get it. As the Bible says Faith Can Move Mountains.

Focus on the Positive belief that it will happen. Focusing on the How will only bury you under the negative energies of worry, over-planning and fear.

In the book called "The Attractor Factor" by Joe Vitale, he talks about listening to what your gut is saying to you. Too many people ignore those feelings and push them aside. Yet what it is telling you is often information that will inspire you. It can help you to find the positive energy that is in every situation. Think about how a mom is able to know when to worry about her child and when to let them go do something as she feels they are safe. Have that same trust in your own gut feelings.

4. Make sure you take a close look at the big picture.

If you get too caught up in the small things, you will miss the big picture. This is going to result in you being more susceptible to negative energy seeping in. Do your best to stay focused on your goals. Have confidence in your abilities and strive to get rid of all the negative energy. If you have Faith that things are going to turn out the way you want them to then they will. You will find this outlook is going to be extremely important when you are using the Laws of Attraction.

5. Don't waste your time focusing on the negative energy that can consume you. This is going to make you vulnerable. It can result in you feeling trapped by feelings of fear and worry that don't go away.

Fears, worries and doubts are negative energies that would sap your energy and side track you. How often do the 'what if's' sneak in and slow us down. It then requires a tremendous amount of positive energy to get us back on track. Worse still, the additional energy required is often so daunting as to cause us to quit altogether.

It is unreal and utopic to expect that we can wear blinkers and not be faced with fears and worries and doubts. These will sneak in from the most unexpected quarters and at the most unexpected times. Don't waste energy blocking them out. Rather surround yourself with the positive energy of friends, family, support group who share your goal. Their positive energy, combined with yours will help you to face these fears and doubts and still forge ahead.

6. Always know what you want and stay focused on it.

This is the only way you will be successful enough to reach your goals. It is unrealistic to think it is just going to happen for you one day out of the blue. It is like a person who wants to lose weight but they don't take the time to engage in behaviors that are realistically going to make it happen. Staying focused is the key to achieving our goals, and you need to realize from the start that things are going to happen that will result in you being side tracked. Keep your goals clear in your mind so you can stay on the right path to achieving them.

Another way of surrounding yourself with positive energy is to focus on the positive energies you have received or the small pebbles you have crossed the previous day en route to your next stepping stone. Sure some of the pebbles may have slipped away before you got to them. Don't focus on them - just acknowledge them and proceed.

Use this method of staying focused every day. It is going to be very valuable to you. Make sure it is in a place where you can't miss it so you will remember. You can move it later on after this practice has become a very integrated part of your daily routine.

At first it may be hard for you to remember to look at your focus board daily. However, in time it will become very routine for you. Use the Laws of Attraction to help you achieve all you want in your life. If you are willing to work hard to be positive, then you can get the right type of energy in our life to make it all happen.

You must realize that you are the one person in control of where your life is headed. At first it can be very hard for you to remember all that is involved but continue to do it. Before you know it though they will become something you automatically do each and every day. The more you focus on having a positive outlook, the more positive energy that will come your way. It may be hard work at first but soon it will even be fun for you.
About the Author
Colin Joss is the author of the best-selling law of attraction ebook Inspired Attraction. To learn how folk just like you - and two stars of The Secret - practice the law of attraction in their lives visit http://www.InspiredAttraction.com
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