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Getting Your Ex Girfriend Back - Do You Really Need Her?

Apr 12, 2008
If you are going through a break up and can't bear the thought of losing your ex girlfriend take a step back and ask yourself why you are so afraid of being without your ex. Do you have recurring thoughts like?

She was the best thing that ever happened to me. I'm completely useless without her. She is everything to me. No one else even compares to her. I'll never be happy again without her.

Well these thoughts aren't going to help you at all right now and they are not true either. You may not believe it but you can be a happy person again without her, but if you don't understand this you will have a harder time whether or not you do have success in getting your ex girlfriend back.

If you go on thinking that you can't possibly make it without your ex or that you don't want to be alone then you will continue to have problems in this relationship and in any relationship in the future. The truth is you must be OK with yourself first. Not only will you be a happier guy but you will be more attractive to your girlfriend and to women in general.

So if the reasons above are the only ones you have for wanting to get your ex girlfriend back you need to ask yourself whether you really do need her or you need to find yourself instead.

You deserve to have a relationship based on love, not on need. Although many romantic movie cliches portray romantic love as two people who profess how much they need each other, this is a co-dependent type of relationship instead of the healthy relationship two complete people who choose to share a life together can have.

So even if you feel more needy than loving right now, take some time and work on yourself and allow real love for your ex to surface. Choosing to love means your are confident enough to give your ex girlfriend some space and it gives you time to reflect before you make your next move.

You will be amazed at how much better you feel when you choose to let go of the neediness and focus instead on the things you love about your ex and some of the positive reasons why you want to get back together. This is a much SMARTER way to get your ex girlfriend back!
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Hi I'm Claire Tourney. Please check out Get Your Ex Back On Squidoo to learn how you can be a happier, more confident guy and discover a PROVEN, effective plan for Getting Your Ex Girlfriend Back
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