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Need To Get Your Girlfriend Back So You Won't Have To Be Alone?

Apr 15, 2008
Thinking about how much you need your girlfriend isn't going to help you win her back.

It will only make you more miserable...full of self pity, doubt, anxiety and then cascading down into despair and desperation.

Not in the least attractive - right?

Why do you think you will be so lost without her? Not sure how you will manage by yourself? Afraid of being alone?

Now I don't mean to come down hard on you guys, but it's time to pull yourself together. Maybe there are some realities you need to face about yourself first, before you can be the type of guy that really can attract their ex back, or any girl for that matter.

Neediness and being clingy aren't qualities that get you respected and admired by women. Think about how it plays at the movies, the stereotypical desperate ex that gets a few embarrassing laughs throughout the show, you don't want to be like that - trust me!

If you truly are afraid of being alone, no one else but you can fix that, so even if you were to get your ex girlfriend back, it would only be a temporary bandaid over the fear and you would still be worried about losing her again.

So what's the solution here? You need to find yourself instead needing her. Find out what makes you strong and gets you happy.

Now I'm not going all mushy on you here, and talk about self love and self esteem can send some guys running faster than a greased leopard, but we're talking about you having to live with yourself the rest of your life, whether you get your girlfriend back or not.

Having to live with any fear, fear of being alone or fear of anything else for that matter is living a restricted life.

Time to face those fears, choose some self respect instead of neediness, and let real love surface for your ex instead of thoughts of desperation at losing her.

Switch your focus right now to what you really love about your ex girlfriend, and some positive reasons why you want to win her back and then get SMART about the next moves you want to make increase your chances for success.
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