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Do You Know The Best Places You Can Meet Women?

Apr 24, 2008
To improve your love life, meeting women is the most essential thing you can do.

After all - the more women you meet, the greater your chances of finding the right one.

But in order to maximize your success, you need to go to the right places to meet girls.

When you focus all your effort and time in a bar or club, you miss getting to know many other interesting women.

The bar scene is one of the hardest locations for any man to meet women. The reasons for this are that there are many problems to deal with while you are there.

1. Loud, which makes conversation difficult, because of the very loud music they play.

2. It's expensive. Typically, after paying for parking, a cover, and a few drinks, you're already $60 - $100 in the hole, and you haven't even met a girl yet!

3. Competition, since every man in the place is looking for his special someone as well.

4. Protection Mechanisms. Women hardly ever go to bars or clubs alone (and if they do, they're going to meet up with someone). This means that even if you hit it off with a girl, you usually have to content with her friends and hope they don't pull her away at the last minute!

5. They're unhealthy. Despite the fact that you usually have to stay up very late when you go to a bar or club, you also have to content with alcohol and cigarette smoke when you do. That's not to say this is terribly bad, but over time, it can start to wear on you.

This does not mean you should never go to the bars and clubs to meet women rather that you limit yourself to only women in these types of places.

Alternative places to meet and get to know women:

1. Coffee Shops

Coffee shops are great locations to meet women, since the environment is relaxed and casual. Many interesting individuals frequent them to work, read and study.

This type of environment encourages people to be open and enjoy different types of conversation.

So if you like coffee, and you're looking to relax a little bit, be sure to hit up the coffee shops occasionally.

2. Book Stores

Bookstores and coffee shops go hand in hand, while many bookstores include a coffee shop.

Lots of women go to book stores to sit around, read books, study, grab a bite to eat, unwind, and even shop for music or magazines.

A bookstores environment is much like that of a coffee shop, casual and relaxing. These areas offer more ease in meeting women than in any type of bar scene.

3. Shopping Centers

Any place women go to shop - like malls or retail outlets - are fantastic places to meet them.

Do you know that a woman will walk around for hours searching for bargains for what she wants, whether new fashions, furniture or anything else she wants? While they are doing this, the last thing they expect is a man to be on the prowl.

This means their defenses are down, causing them to be more open to meeting men, while shopping.

4. Grocery Stores

Since we all need to eat, grocery stores are a treasure trove for meeting an interesting woman. Health food stores, such as Whole Foods Market, are perfect for this since they normally have areas where you can sit, visit and enjoy a meal with one another.

Many grocery stores are including a hang out area inside their stores in hopes to increase their sales by keeping customers there longer. Their in-store coffee shop provides another means of meeting women.

You should consider visiting the grocery stores after work hours, since many women stop to shop for dinner.

5. The Internet

Do you know that the internet is one of the easiest ways to meet women, while requiring hardly any effort from you?

Just go to a dating website, sign up, and start emailing people. That's it!

They are already in the market for new romance, while actively searching for their own someone special. How could it get any easier? You should consider online dating along with your other means of meeting women, or you miss out.

Sure, you may be thinking to yourself, that you do not want to have to go to any of these locations solely to meet women.

Yes, you are right you should not have to.

I never specifically go to a grocery store thinking "I'm gonna pick up a girl." I go there to buy groceries, and if I see a girl there I want to meet, then I'll approach her.

This is important.

I make it a point that as I go about my day, I'm spotting opportunities to meet new people, because you just never know when you'll meet the right girl.

Therefore, you should never limit yourself to any area. No matter where you may be, keep looking to meet new women. However, those listed above offer some of the easiest means of doing so.

Understand: In order to increase your success, you have to make sure that you're able to meet girls no matter WHERE you are.

As you are going through your daily routine, always be on the lookout for opportunities to talk to a woman you find desirable. Never miss an opportunity to strike up a casual conversation with anybody, because you never know where it's going to lead.
About the Author
Joseph Matthews has been instructing men how to meet women since 2004, and is widely recognized as an authority in the field of confidence building and dating advice. If you want to discover more about how to meet women, check out his complimentary newsletter.
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