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How To Get Your Boyfriend Back When He Is Ignoring You

Apr 25, 2008
How do I get my boyfriend back? He has been ignoring me and I do not know what to do next?

Does the above question apply to you? It is important to know that there are certain things that should not be done if you want to get your boyfriend back. Doing them can reduce your chances of success.

Let's explore what they are:

1) Don't keep on contacting your boyfriend

This is especially important when you have just broken up. At this point of time, you are probably not in a very positive emotional state. Because of that, you are more likely to do things that worsen the situation rather than make it better.

Therefore, there is little point in trying to contact your boyfriend again and again. Most likely, you won't know what to say even if your boyfriend answers your call.

Perhaps you have been contacting your boyfriend several times per day and he did not answer your call and didn't even bother to reply you. This shows that he is purposely avoiding you and it doesn't help by calling him more often. Furthermore, it can make you appear needy which can make him perceive you in a negative manner.

2) Don't try to argue with him about the break up

Perhaps you can't accept the reasons he gives you for the breakup. You think he is lying. There must be other reason. And obviously, you want to argue with him about it.

Don't do that. Let's look at it this way. If he doesn't want to tell you the truth, we will take it that he has his own reason. Maybe he thinks that this is the way to minimize the hurt to you. Even if you argue with him, it doesn't mean he will tell you the truth. It can be matters worse when he becomes defensive instead.

3) Don't pester his friends or family members

If you can't reach him, you might be tempted to approach his friends or family members. Maybe you want to find out more about what has happen to him and why did he want to break up with you.

Try not to do that. One reason is that he may not have told his friends or family members about it. Imagine what his reaction will be like if he realizes that you are harassing his friends and family members.

If you want to get back your boyfriend, it is important that you do not do the three things mentioned above.
About the Author
How to get your boyfriend back ? Most relationships can be saved, no matter how hopeless the situation seems.

You can watch a video "1st Step To Stopping A Break Up"
at Magic of Making Up

This video will show you exactly what you must NEVER do, what you should do to get back your ex and the psychological reason behind why it works.
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