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5 Signs That Indicate Your Lover Might Be Cheating On You

May 2, 2008
Sometimes when you suspect that your lover is cheating on you it's based solely on your instincts. While you should trust your instincts you still need some proof that your lover is cheating on you. Asking them and accusing them of cheating is the wrong way to go about it until you do have proof.

The easiest way to start getting proof that your lover is cheating on you is watch the signs that cheaters give off. This of course is just a start, but it is a start that will lead down the right path. That is what were are going to look at here today. Here are 5 signs that your lover may be cheating on you.

Sign #1 Hides Credit Cards: People who cheat are often spending money in places where they shouldn't be. You may see a purchase for some lingerie. Did he ever give you that lingerie? You may see a purchase for new golf clubs. Did your wife ever give you those golf clubs? What about hotels? What about dinners at fancy restaurants? There is lots of dirt to be dug up and found on ones credit card statements.

Sign #2 Long Working Hours: If your lover always worked long hours then this one isn't so obvious. For many it is a big sign of a problem. One thing to look for is a raise or a promotion at work. If that is the case then there may be a legitimate reason for them working longer hours. But if their pay isn't increasing then they may be making it all up. You might have to poke and pry by asking them questions about their work. See how they respond to those questions.

Sign #3 Their Computer: A computer is a big place for cheaters to hang out. This is why it is something that you should investigate. Who is sending them email? What sites are they visiting? Are they deleting their browsing history? Do they have new email accounts? You can install some spy software to look into allot of these things.

Sign #4: Install Spy Cams: You may want to consider installing a spy camera in certain locations. For example, would you be able to hook one up in your lovers car? Can you get to their office and install one? Could you plan a trip a way from home and install a spy camera in your home? These are all options that you can consider.

Sign #5: No Connection: When your lover starts cheating you will start to feel less connected to him or her. Those long conversations you had are long gone. Your sex life has probably gone with it. When was the last time you went out together? Has he or she become less romantic. These are things that can occur over time even if your lover is not cheating. But these are still signs of a relationship going bad.

Once you start seeing signs you will need to investigate into things further. The last thing you want to do is let your emotions get the best of you. You have to remember that your lover may in fact not be cheating on you either. This is why you need to find proof before you start accusing them of something they haven't done.
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