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Approaching Women - How To Approach Women

May 3, 2008
You may have the looks and the credit cards but if you are just sitting down and thinking that girls will come to you with a snap of a finger, then you are totally wrong. No lady is going to come trailing after you unless you take the initiative to make the first move.

Ladies, if you are reading this, the truth is that despite the big and muscular biceps, some guys can be as timid as a mouse when it comes to approaching women. They fear of rejection and the need to deal with another bruised ego is just stopping them from chatting up with the girls.

But in reality, if you know how to handle the situation well, you will realize that approaching women can be as easy as a breeze. Here are some simple tips and tricks to aid you:

#1 Do not hesitate

Women love confident guys. They love the way you strut confidently to them and how your body language hints to them of your intentions. If you have noodle legs every time you want to approach a woman, then most probably you are going to have a tough time in the dating scene. Nervous guys don't make it big either. It can be a big turn off for some women and you will definitely have to suffer time and again due to rejection.

#2 Don't quit

If you don't succeed at first try, give it a second try. If it doesn't work either, give it a third try and so on. Don't stop till you succeed. This is just like the story Thomas Edison who failed continuously to use the right material as the filament of a light bulb. He remained positive throughout, and he finally succeeds. Just remember that if you fail with the first, try with the second. You will never know when you are lucky. Remain confident and calm and there is no need to feel depressed when you suffer a setback. Tell yourself it is just part and parcel of life.

#3 Have a good topic to talk about

If you don't want to risk the chance, then do little planning. It would be great if you plan ahead of what you want to do when you approach a girl. This is the crucial part as it will help to differentiate you from the average Joes. Gather all of your flirting skills and this is the part where you flaunt them to her. Setting a good first impression is important as it definitely increase your appeal factor. So, show this through your speech, body language and behavior. Warning: Avoid cheesy pick up lines. If you see her rolling her eyes after you said hi, then you are definitely using the wrong kind of pick up line. You can use simple topics like the weather or what you had for lunch, or basically, something that she can relate to.

#4 Make her smile

A guy scores the most when he is able to make a girl smile. Yes, girls love to laugh, a lot. They find the littlest things amusing, so humor her with some good joke. However, don't bother trying to crack her up with lame ones. Dirty jokes are definitely a no-no as not all girls find these types of joke hilarious. So, don't take the chance! It takes truckloads of courage to chat up with a girl. Practice makes perfect and the same time learn from your mistakes. It will do you well next time round. Have a flirty good time!
About the Author
Michael Dat specialises in dating techniques for men. Find out how to get a woman's phone number within three minutes of meeting her. Visit http://www.datingquestionsformen.com for more dating and seduction tips.
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