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Dating Advice for Women - Do You Know What He Is Thinking?

May 7, 2008
Have you ever tried to communicate with someone you're dating about how HE is feeling? It's not usually too easy to pry feelings from the depths of a man's mind, underneath all the football, baseball, cars and "man things" that take up the space in there. The thing is - if you are at the point in your relationship where you are wondering what your boyfriend is thinking and feeling about you and your relationship right now... then it might already be TOO LATE.

This is one of the often missed communication problems in blooming relationships. I know from my own experience what a torturous feeling this can be. I cannot imagine that you want to go down this road either.

Its not simply about that awful feeling, though. It could get much worse, and you could lose him if the communication in your relationship does not get any better. You wouldn't even know he was thinking about leaving, would you?

So what can you do to make this right? I am going to give you a few simple pointers on action steps you can take TODAY to start bridging the communication gap.

The first simple dating tip is to quit trying to get inside HIS mind. You need to get inside YOUR mind first. Remember that at ALL times you are in complete control of your actions, words, reactions and communication. The first step toward fixing anything is to start with yourself.

Secondly - you need to think and act in a positive fashion. If you react negatively to him by becoming clingy or whiney when you think something is wrong, you are only going to drive the stake deeper into the heart of the vampire if you know what I mean. If you expect the worst - you will get the worst.

The third step to mend your relationship communication is to begin looking beneath his words. Begin trusting in your intuition to understand what he is or is not saying to you. Then, instead of physically voicing your questions - start to ask yourself the questions and begin relying on your intuition to give you the answers.

Fourth - you need to learn to INTERPRET your intuition. Say you have a bad feeling that your boyfriend is up to something. He acts strange and secretive. You might interpret his behavior and your intuition to say he is cheating on you. But maybe it will turn out he is throwing you a surprise party or drumming up a nice romantic get-away.

The point is - don't let your insecurities cloud your intuition. You may think something is going on, but in reality, it could be totally opposite of what you think it is. Allow it to play itself out without jumping to conclusions. If you want to read more dating tips and relationship advice, click below.
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