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Song Lyrics to Save the Doomed "Nice Guy

May 10, 2008
I'm on my way to the supermarket the other day listening to the radio like I always do. I'm singing along to the lyrics of Everything You Want by vertical Horizon when suddenly I have an epiphany! Do you know the song I'm talking about? It goes," he is everything you want, he is everything you need but he means nothing to you and you don't know why"?

This is a truly amazing song if you can stop and think about what the words are really saying. The song is describing the lifelong plight of the "nice guy". It's surprising how many nice guys have problems hooking up with women. They can't get a date because of the simple fact that they are TOO nice.

Simply said -- the nice guy does not get the girl because he is too nice to her, which in turn kills the attraction. In fact when women look at these men, they see a great friend, not a potential date.

The Vertical Horizon song explains the plight of the nice guy in just a few stanzas. The nice guy is everything a girl wants -- he is kind, considerate, attentive, brings her flowers and is genuinely interested in her day. He is everything that most women say they want in a man. But he means nothing to her.

Instead, she ends up going out with some jock stud muffin who is rude, crude and can barely spell his own name. Why does she go out with him? Because she is attracted to him.

I don't mean that you should try to treat women like garbage. What I do mean is that you need to learn to create attraction for her like Tarzan does so that you can get a date. You need to spark her attraction and keep it going with your own actions and wiles.

How do you do this? You can do in many different ways. One of my favorite ways is to use humor and a little cocky funny attitude. This means you bust on her, tease her and play around with her until she has no idea what you are going to do next. This means you actually play with the attraction vibe between you, in order to keep her guessing about whether or not she is having an effect on you.

What most men do not understand is that letting a woman know that you are attracted to her is the kiss of death in the beginning of a relationship. Nice guys - being nice guys - are going to give a woman compliments and let her know how much they are attracted to her. The dumb jock, on the other hand, plays with her and does not let her see how much he is attracted to her. This keeps her coming back for more.

So remember - if you tend to be a nice guy, just sing that Vertical Horizon song to yourself and quit being that man that she will not want. Give her what she really wants by being a little bit of a bad boy and your dating life will turn around. Read more on the relationship between bad boys, nice guys, and the women they both want - click below.
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