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Can I Get My Ex Back In A Hopeless Situation

May 11, 2008
Breaking up with a lover can be a very devastating experience. Even a person who is usually very strong emotionally can feel extremely helpless initially, as if it is the end of the world. Sometimes, it is easy for outsiders to say, "Let go of the relationship." However, most of the time, they will never understand the feeling of breaking up until they have experienced it themselves.

In this article, let us explore one of the most common concerns that people have after breaking up. (Take note that what you will learn below apply to members of both genders)

Question: How do I get my ex back? I really don't think it is possible in my situation.

Answer:
Thank you for your question. I understand your concern. Perhaps, you may even be thinking, "Why me? Why must it happen to me?"

Let me assure you that you are definitely not alone. You may think that your situation is very hopeless. But don't give up if you really believe in the relationship.

From my experience, I have known of people, some of them my personal friends who break up for a variety of reasons. I am not going to give you false hope that every single break up can be resolved. Sometimes, it may indeed be better to let go of a relationship and set yourself free.

However, let's look on the bright side. There are many people who did manage to salvage their relationship. For example, guys getting back with their girlfriends after separating for one year or more.

And I must say that there are some serious cases too. It is not unusual to see a man, who had affairs for many years with several women, managed to save his marriage in the end.

In fact, there are couples whose relationship becomes even stronger after the affair. Of course, I am not advocating that you should get into an affair. The reason for using this example is to tell you that there is still hope even if you think your situation is extremely hopeless, as long as you know what to do.

If you have just broken up with your girlfriend, the first thing that you should do is to get your emotion under control. Don't contact her for the time being. Once you are feeling better, you will then be in a better position to plan your next step.

Meanwhile, avoid contacting your girlfriend several times per day, especially if you have just broken up. First, you may not know the right thing to say. Second, you do not want to give her too much pressure, at least not now. Pressure her too much and it is very likely that you will push her away.
About the Author
Can I Get My Ex Back ? Most relationships can be saved, no matter how hopeless the situation seems.

You can watch a video "1st Step To Stopping A Break Up"
at Magic of Making Up

This video will show you exactly what you must NEVER do, what you should do to get back your ex and the psychological reason behind why it works.
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