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6 Different Ways to Strike Up a Conversation with a Beautiful Stranger!

May 14, 2008
In this article we will briefly cover six different types of openers: functional, opinion, situational, no opener, screening, and direct. Now these are some great examples from the mystery method camp, so listen up.

The opinion opener is a random question, usually involving relationships or something light hearted. For example: "My friend John over there just broke up with his girlfriend. How long do you think he should wait to start dating again?" It's important to know that your openers should come from your own life.

The situational opener is what ever the moment offers. You're asking a question (what's that drink?) or a random statement (I like this music). This kind of opener is a nonchalant opener deliver the same way you might comment to someone you have no interest in.

Functional openers are easy and low risk. You just have to fallow up well and steer the conversation some were fun. These are asking directions, asking for the time, standard stuff like that. Now to add another dimension to this you can transition into a flirty conversation. You can ask for the time and then just interrupt the women's answer and say "I have a watch, I just wanted to come over and flirt a while." This is a fun and brilliant transition from the guys at pickup 101.

In situations were the energy is high and people mingle openly you don't really have to have an opener. You can simply walk up and start talking like you were in the middle of a conversation, or simply say hi.

The screening openers set the tone that your screening her by asking something like "is there more to you than meets the eye?" Your intentions are fairly clear and that is ballsy and creates the context that you are the selector not the selected.

Then we have the direct opener. You walk up and let them know what your thinking. "you're the women I most wanted to meet here." Or "Your cute." These openers are pure confidence and absolute magic when you pull it off. Do you remember that witty transition from the functional opener I mentioned above? That kind of stuff works great in a direct opener as well!

You know six types of openers now. Sit down and think of some for each category that fits your life's experience and personality. Always remember there is a lot more to successfully opening a conversation with a women than what you say, so don't go nuts over this. To learn the vital points that will greatly increase your success with striking up a conversation with a women, like rooting, time constraints, and when and were to use different types of openers, keep reading and learning through experience.
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