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Women Can Talk, Men Just Can't Listen

May 16, 2008
Men think that all the communication is in words that come out of his mouth. It is a fact that words only account for 7% of the communication piece. 93% of our communication is through body language and tone of voice.

Women are physically attracted to a man that walks tall, with his shoulders back and head up always. This shows a sense of confidence that have in everything they do.

In fact, this is doing yourself a favour as well, by doing this you actually will feel confident and attractive. This aura of confidence is what women seek in the man the want.

Most men and women for that matter make the mistake of looking away when they suddenly realize that a person of the opposite sex is looking at them.

This is good, because to set yourself apart from all the other men around, your only job is to then maintain eye contact if you sense a women looking at you. Maintaining eye contact does not mean to start at her 24/7. Its just that slight eye contact hold with a subtle smile at her.

This lets her know that she is dealing with one solid, confident and powerful man that can take her and melt her. She is now attracted to you without needing to even say anything. You are no longer the chaser but the selector now. You have swapped positions.

Rejection is a powerful perception always lingering in the back of a man's mind when it comes to women. Thus men try to fully read a woman before making his move just to be sure. This is a waste of time and energy. If a woman is friendly towards you, ask her for her contact details or even better, ask her for a date right their and then.

This will show your confidence towards her and she will be naturally attracted towards you. If you are alone on a walk and you can feel there is a strong chemistry between the two of you, reach over and just give a slight peck on the forehead or cheek.

This will catch her by surprise in a good way. She will feel good even though she will try her best to hold it back. Always move forward. This gradually builds up your confidence around women.

Although it was previously mentioned that words only make up a small portion of the overall communication, it is still important that we learn to use the language and talk to a woman to stimulate her imagination.

Women use their imagination far more than a man does and if you can trigger her imagination of you kissing and caressing her, she cannot tell the difference between what's real and what's imagined. Either way, she's feeling it and she'll die to want that physical touch because she's already felt it.

Combine body posture, eye contact, with words you say and tone of voice into your overall communication arsenal and you will attract all the women you can handle. Imagine the confidence you radiate within your environment!
About the Author
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