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One Night Stands, Is It Worth It

May 21, 2008
Fact is, we are all human. Both men AND women have that urge to just want to do it right there and then.

However, before you go out and begin the sexual encounter, you must be aware of the two different types of one night stand women out there. On one hand, you have the no strings attached type who want the quick sex and will leave you alone before you even notice, and on the other hand, there are the women who first claim they are looking for quick sex but then become emotionally involved and want you to become their boyfriend!

It is not uncommon to see one night stands come with baggage so this serves as a warning as well.

You will immediately tell what type of woman she is by her approach to you. If she is easy to get into bed, then it's likely that she is aggressive and just wants a one night stand full of sex.

Most men think they need to go out and hire a hotel, or worse come with a hotel all booked and prepared. Don't do this as it makes you look very desperate when you check in. You should just let it happen naturally and let it lead from one base to another.

Remember, women are just as impressed with the little things such as opening the car door for her or picking up a flower from the park as you walk by.

Patience is the name of the game. The more patience you show, the more you will receive in the end. Just allow the moment to take its course and it will eventually lead to the bed.

Most men also are not sure what to do after they have had their sexual moment. Most men just find the opportunity to bolt through door. This is not the best way. However, you must also avoid being too emotionally attached and becoming too soft as you may end up falling for each other without the intention of doing so.

Most men also tell the women that they will call them and meet up again before eventual departure, never having the intention to do so. This can leave a sour taste by building a fake expectation and can cause embarrassment in the future when you accidentally bump into them again.

It's probably best to leave early in the morning and have a mutual departure and also thank her for such a great night. Don't forget that the woman is also likely to have the same thoughts as you in regards of how to depart gracefully without hurting you too. This was because the both of you only ever had the intention of a one night stand with no strings attached anyway.
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