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Is She Into You? Here Is How To Know For Sure!

May 23, 2008
Your talking to a beautiful woman, she is nice, you have a lot in common, and you share a few laughs together. The question in your head is, "is she into me or is she just being polite?" The conversation ends and you are nervous about asking for her number or to see her again because you don't know how to tell if she is attracted to you or not!

This is a common dilemma for a lot of guys. This unintuitive way of going about our interactions with women is a waist of time. From this approach you have the type of behavior that motivate a man to meet women by simply exposing himself to chance as many times as possible and hoping he gets "lucky". For some reason I cannot understand why most guys never come to the realization that this approach is absolutely ridiculous. Think about that one friend you have who is just a natural with women. He is always meeting new hot women. Do you think this is an accident? Of course not, he knows something you don't, or rather many things you don't.

So what to do about our supposed natural male lack of intuition? First to say men have no intuition is bull! Second, once you know what to look for, you will find that you can read women like a book. So that is exactly what we aim to do for you in this article. Weather you are wondering if you should approach a women you spotted across the room or if a women you just met would be open to seeing you again, you can know with certainty before you even say a word.

If you would like, after reading this article, you can keep it a secret and just let your friends think you have some kind of ladies man super powers of intuition, go right ahead, we wont tell anyone.

Men have a misconception that if they start a conversation with a woman she will make a big embarrassing scene if she is not into him. This is not true. The worse that can happen is nothing. In other words she will just tolerate you, not seem enthusiastic or try to perpetuate the conversation. The first sign a woman will show is she will be friendly. If she is friendly and talkative, it's on! This does not mean she's totally into you but you are on the right track. Strange men approach women all the time. If she is paying attention to you in a friendly way, and not blowing you off, you are doing well. This may seem obvious but you have to continue a fun interaction and look for a few more indicators of interest.

Which brings us to another good point. One indicator is good, but if you can recognize a couple or several indicators of interest you can know without a doubt she is into you. There are both verbal and non-verbal indicators to look for.

Some of the more obvious indicators are more verbal. Some examples are:
She is very upbeat and chatty
She makes it a point to respond enthusiastically to your choice of conversation topics
She will make it point to show she is into the same things or agree with your point of view
She reinitiates the conversation when you get quite
She laughs at something you said even when you know it wasn't that funny
She starts asking questions about you like your name, age, what ever

This list of more verbal indicators of interest should be obvious but most guys are just that clueless. Most guys who interact with women on a regular basis will start to pick up on these indicators, but when you know what to look for, the less obvious non-verbal indicators of interest are what will give you rock solid confidence when its time to get her phone number.

Short lists of non-verbal indicators of interest are:
She laughs and playfully hits you on the arm
She touches you repeatedly in any way
She is sitting next to you and is comfortable if your legs or arms are leaning on each other
Look you in the eyes for a bit longer than normal when you're talking to her
She may even give you a look in the eyes that should make her attraction obvious to you
A smile, or holding your gaze for a second or two from across the room
She says something to her friends and giggles
She playfully challenges you
She plays with her hair
She looks to see your reaction to her actions or comments
On her way out she will tell you she is leaving (hoping you get her number)
She introduces you to her friends
She invents reasons to be around you

Ok, this list is quite long but definitely not complete. From this list you have a place to start from and start building your intuition around women. Before you know it, you will be very aware when a women is attracted to you without saying a word. The unspoken chemistry and tension will become a fun game you like to play with beautiful women.
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