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How to Find Dates with a Woman

May 24, 2008
It seems to be inevitable for some men to find dates with women. Many people get disheartened when they can't find a date over a certain period of time. If you are one of these men and are looking for some tips to help with your dating life or lack there of, you're in luck. Take a look:

1) Get out there with your friends! There's no better way to meet women than to be out at clubs and wherever there is nightlife. When you are with your group of friends, you'll feel more confident about approaching women; they'll be there to root you on and to cheer you up if you fail. You may also be introduced to someone your friends know; they can put in a good word for you. This will cut most of your work in half. All that's left for you to do is get a conversation going and get to know each other better.

2) Try the online dating scene. There are many dating web sites that you can go to; to see who is out there. This is much more relaxing because you can see pictures of girls and read their profiles without having to approach them. Establishing an internet friendship with a girl you're interested in will make it less awkward when meeting in person for the first time. Talk over the phone as well.

3) Approach a lot of women. The odds of you picking up a girl increases the more you approach them. In the process, you will figure out the mystery of women - there really isn't one! You just need to understand that different girls have different needs and wants.

4) Make your conversations interesting. No one wants to engage in a talk session with someone who is boring, so don't ask stupid questions or bore her with uninteresting stories. Talk about popular topics, such as music, movies and hot spots. People love talking about themselves, so get her to open up and chat about her likes, dislikes and interests. This will also help you to know what to talk about.

5) Stay open minded. If you don't succeed on your first try, keep going. Don't be quick to dismiss girls without a good reason. You never know, this could be the 'it' girl.

6) Be confident. It is important that you remain comfortable in your own skin before someone else can be comfortable with you. It is also known that women like men who have confidence, this shows them that there is something in you that you're proud of and this could mean she could be interested in what you have to offer. Raise your confidence by speaking audibly and clearly and make sure you are fresh, clean and well dressed.

7) Always look your best. If you can show women that you can take care of yourself, it says that you can take care of other things as well; including them. Be stylish and clean-cut.

8) Don't appear to be desperate. Women will wonder why you are trying so hard and what you are trying to cover up; likely flaws.

9) Act a gentleman. Show your chivalry skills and let her know that there are still gentlemen in the world. It's hard for women to turn down a man that treats her well.

10) Learn your women. By knowing how a woman is before you approach her will give you lead way on what to say and how to act.
About the Author
Want to learn 50 WAYS for approaching, attracting and seducing women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson's Free eBook which provides 50 tips for instant dating success.
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