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Do You Have Approach Anxiety? Read This

Jun 5, 2008
Most men have fears - some don't like spiders, others don't like heights, and still others fear going bald or getting a pot belly. These are not things that men naturally lay out on the table and discuss. One very common fear among men, though, that should be discussed, is the fear of approaching women.

One of the first things that men can learn to do to help overcome approach anxiety is practice. Practice makes perfect after all, and the more you do it, the more comfortable you will become. The more comfortable you become, the more success you will have. Women can sense a man's ease - and if he is easily able to strike up a conversation with her, that will make her more comfortable.

So as soon as you see a woman you want to approach - do it before you can psyche yourself out. Another thing that really helps opening a conversation with women is using techniques like Cocky Comedy or Cocky Funny, as some people call it.

Cocky Comedy is a technique developed by David Deangelo of Double Your Dating which uses humor to both create and promote attraction. It is incredibly effective, and very easy to pull off in a natural way. Cocky Comedy is all about busting on a girl, keeping her on her toes because you show her with your words that you are not impressed with her, but your body language tells her something different.

This can be done as simply as this. Show her with your body that you are attracted to her by doing small things like touching her hair or putting your hand on her back. But then, verbally bust on her - tell her that she is too short to be able to drive a car, or that her cooking obviously sucks because she is too skinny, or something like that. A word to the wise, though - never tell her she is fat!

This method will keep the woman confused and slightly off balance - wondering whether or not you really ARE attracted to her and making her try a little harder to win your approval. In other words, it puts YOU in the upper hand instead f her.

As you get more comfortable approaching people, you will start to appreciate how similar women are, and you'll develop standard ways to overcome their objections or make them laugh by teasing them or engaging them in an unusual manner. And, more generally, you'll develop an ease and comfort with other people - even strangers - that will translate nicely into a confidence that women find irresistible.

The more you practice approaching women using Cocky Comedy - the better at it you will get. You will see your dating life grow, and you will soon have the pick of the women you want to date, and end up developing a significant relationship with. So what have you got to lose, except a little anxiety?
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One great way to accomplish this is by simply picking on her - making jokes about her shirt or her hair or something like that. Not rude - just playful. Then, with your body language, show her you are interested in her by touching her or hugging her, simple things that let her know that you ARE interested.
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