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If He Withdraws - Try This

Jun 5, 2008
Have you ever been dating a man for a while and things are going GREAT - then suddenly they take a turn for the worse and you end up losing him even though you tried your hardest to keep him? This happens to MANY women - and the strange things is - when a man starts withdrawing, we all react the same way using one of (or several) behaviors I have figured out.

One of the things women do to keep a man from withdrawing is to try to be his friend. You try to be helpful, "guy-like" and supportive, all the while thinking that he will soon realize how great you are.

Or - you could try to start dating other men, or telling people you are doing that in order to make him jealous. Of course, that jealousy will make him realize how much he loves you.

Pretending that being in a casual relationship is fine is another tactic women take to try to bring him back. You continue to have sex with him, and welcome him when he does come by, and you never let him see you cry. You think that this will make him realize just how great you are!

You might guilt-trip him, give him an ultimatum, or tell him he is childish and not a real man, hoping that he will stay in the relationship in order to fix himself, and will, naturally, grow to love you and thank you.

Or of course, there is always trying to do everything for him that he could need done. You might baby him, do his laundry - be as thoughtful as possible in order to, again, show him how much he would be missing.

But guess what? These things do NOT work with men! We all DO them, but they don't work. It makes sense to us, as women, that logically, they would work. But the fact is, inside the mind of a man - they only drive him away.

So what will work for this situation. Well - I hate to tell you - there is no magic phrase, line or bullet. Nothing is going to magically bring him back. What does work, though, is LEARNING what will make a man feel that natural and lasting attraction that will keep him in your relationship.

In order to keep your relationship healthy, active and interested, you need to develop an understanding of what creates natural and lasting attraction. A barrier that women face, though, to understanding this is their own personal mindset.

I heard Dr Phil say on his show that "Change always starts with YOU". Your own mindset can affect how you act, react and interpret everything. If you want to create a positive change in your relationship, you need to start with yourself and become aware of your own tendencies and outlooks.

If you can create a natural and lasting attraction for you and your man, your relationship will blossom into a beautiful, healthy relationship that other women envy. So do yourself and your partner a favor and learn what creates natural and lasting attraction now.
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