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The Magic Of Making Up - From Break Up To Make Up

Jun 6, 2008
(Note: For simplicity, I may use "him", "her", "girlfriend" and "boyfriend" interchangeably. However, the tips provided below applies to both men and women)

In case you think I am going to talk to you about magic here, I will have to disappoint you. I don't believe there is any magical way that you can get your ex back. But if you do things in a certain way, it will definitely be easier for you to attract your ex back, as though it is magic.

Besides knowing what you should do to get your ex back, it will also be very useful if you know what the things that should not be done are. Knowing them in advance will help you avoid making those mistakes, which can have the potential to make your situation worse.

First, you will want to have a thorough understanding of this principle. "People want what they do not have." You have probably heard of this principle before, but if you have not heard of them, it generally means that when people cannot have something or cannot have something easily, their desire for it will become very strong.

However, if people can have something very easily, they will not treasure it as much anymore.

I mention this principle because I noticed that a lot of the common mistakes that people made violate this principle.

Some common mistakes include drunk dialing, professing your undying love, calling your ex over and over again.

I hope you can see how these mistakes violate the above principle. These mistakes make you look desperate and needy. So, from your girlfriend's point of view, you are "easy to get". This instantly makes you very unattractive in the eyes of your girlfriend. You certainly do not want that to happen to you.

When people can have something easily, then they will not treasure it.

What you will want to focus on in yourself. Focus on making yourself more attractive. You don't need to be the most handsome guy in the world to be attractive.

You just need to look your best. Try to work on different aspects of your life. It can either be your health, your physical appearance, your social skills, or even learning a new skill.

By doing all these, your confidence level and self esteem will also increase which will make you more attractive to your girlfriend. This makes it easier to attract your girlfriend back.
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How to win your ex back ?

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You will also learn how to reverse the situation if you have already done those things that should NEVER be done.
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