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Keys to Flirting

Jun 8, 2008
You need to know as much as possible about the girls when it comes to flirting with girls. It is the one of the most useful advices for flirting. Some girls prefer old fashioned romantic courting, while some are bold enough to express what they want and prefer getting right to the point. To solve this basic problem, you need to find out more and more about the girl such as her choice of dress, her music interest, whether she is shy or outgoing. Understanding these basic things about her may give you an idea about how to approach her.

There are many keys to flirting that can be quite effectual if followed properly in a step by step manner. Be steady, but not boring and slow. Don't simply leap out at her and make her nervous after which she might avoid you. Slowly start turning into a guy who is familiar, fun and interesting. Keep smiling whenever you pass her in the corridors and make sure to hold her gaze once in while. Do not engage in long conversations. Just let her that you are around and are friendly.

Continue to do this till you start seeing each other commonly. This will make her get used to seeing you around and may lead to many possibilities. The next step you should make is that turn the conversations a bit romantic and increase their duration. You should make her feel that you like talking to her and that you are interested in what she says. This is the point where you start your flirty behavior.

Your overall behavior should strongly express that you like her. Women usually like being pampered. They also go ga-ga over good compliments. You should make her feel special. Appreciate her with the words such as her eyes are mysterious with an intelligent spark; rather than just telling her that she is beautiful. Make eye contact when she is talking with you. Avoid looking at another girl passing by. You may use simple flirting techniques to attract the woman towards you. Touching is a very intimate way of flirting. A simple touch can help to develop a strong bond between both of you. You may pat her shoulder or invite her for a thumb fight game. When you both reach to the level of comfort, then you may even hug her while saying 'Good-bye'.

There are many keys to flirting but these are to be chosen by you knowing the level of comfort and the nature of the girl you are thinking about. Show your confidence in your talk and body language. Remember that flirting is not just about making her laugh with your jokes and being cute. You should properly tune into the stuff that goes on in her mind and this will get her interested in you.

Just pick up any topic and drag it into flirtatious grounds. The thing always to be remembered is that women can tell instantly whether you are flirting with her or not. Make flirting as natural as possible. Accept it as your style. Do not stop yourself because you are afraid of getting rejected. If you do this then you will always have boring and the very normal conversation with women and will miss something very interesting in life.

Keys to flirting are variable and you should implement them in different situations. You may also apply your own distinct flirting techniques. You should be yourself and should not cross the limits. Take care that she would not feel uncomfortable with you. Focus on your reactions and do not think about the outcome of the conversation. If you are being yourself, then the reactions will be obvious and correct. It is essential for you to show yourself in good light.
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Rameesh Kumar uses a flirt quiz to help people flirt better. To take flirt quizzes, read on.
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