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Does It Feel Like WORK Meeting Women? - Part II

Jun 14, 2008
There are three reasons for this.

The first reason is may be new to you - being socially proactive.

I recall when I first started lifting weights, I didn't have upper pectoral muscles - the muscle at the top of your chest just under your clavicle that make your chest look big.

Actually I do have a small muscle but it was so weak that I can't even feel them. So every time worked them out I was incredibly sore and could barely move my arms. And it took me three good weeks to really feel them.

Then I can now handle the big amounts of weight right after I have reached the tripping point in the development of my muscle. The mind is in that way too.

It takes time to develop these new neuro-pathways on your own. If you're not pushing yourself HARD day in-day out, it can take awhile, depending on your skill level.

Another reason you may feel social fatigue is because you think there's too much to do or learn when meeting women.

This is actually a little different from "fatigue." It's more like feeling overwhelmed.

One way that can frazzle your mind is when you are overwhelmed by something. And this can lead to some sort of discouragement, exhaustion and depression. It's like your body saying "Whew, enough for this much work, I'm quitting before I can even begin"

This will hold you back from DOING ANYTHING. I suffered from this kind of feeling when I started putting a lot of my theories on paper. I looked at my notes and felt like I was looking at one of those huge, complex physics equations.

It was discouraging to think that I had to do almost all the needed things just to get a good quality of women.

Lastly, you will feel socially exhausted for your dating and mating game, when you spend a lot of effort and focus on stuff in wrong situation and find out it was not helpful to your pick-up.

I'd say 99 percent of guys get it wrong when it comes to attracting women. The thing is, the woman usually can't tell, because most guys learn to hide their inner "stuff" after a few harsh rejections.

But this doesn't negate the fact that when the average guy is attracted to a woman, he spends his mental energy on trying to impress her, or figure out if she likes him.

It's the man's role to IMPRESS the woman and EARN sex from her - as what we get from the media, our parents and friends.

Ridiculous!

I see some advertisement of a guy bungling around to a cute girl trying to impress her, and looking like a fool while the girl giggles like she's better because she is woman. - I hate that kind of thing.

So much for that... what I'm trying to imply here is that when it comes to the matter of controlling a date, guys are being screwed.

But if a guy takes the time to adjust the way his MIND works when it comes to attraction, it changes everything.

You need to OPTIMIZE YOUR MIND and body to function at the highest level when interacting with women, because that's what's truly attractive...

A MAN AT HIS BEST.
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