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5 Ways to Make a Coffee Date Sexy

Jun 17, 2008
The coffee date can feel all too common. Yes, it's not as cliche as dinner and a movie, but it's gotten a bad rap. However, coffee dates can be surprisingly intimate, fun, and downright sexy if you follow these instructions. Here are some ways to spice up your coffee date, so you're more likely to see her again, and maybe even start hooking up on the first date.

1) Sit next to her, not across from her.

When you sit down with her, avoid the square table situation where you're sitting across from her. The best thing you can do is find a couch, and sit down with your butts touching. If there are no couches available, get a table, but pull the chair so you're sitting at a forty-five degree angle. This will make it look like you guys have been dating for a while, instead of the awkward "interview" position. Even better, get your arm around her at some points.

2) Pick a unique coffee place

First off, avoid the Green Empire. Starbucks is a great place to go on your way to work, but a huge vibe-killer for dates. They're just too common, and too commercialized. She's been in a Starbucks too many times for it to be a memorable experience.

Also, the cooler and more unique the coffee place, the more negotiating room you have to get the woman to meet you near your house. This is crucial to getting her home at the end of the date. If Starbucks is the only coffee place around, make sure you follow the next rule

4) Get coffee, then walk.

I know this seems to destroy the whole point of the coffee date, but hear me out. Multiple locations make any date more fun. Women's minds process three locations with you as three separate dates. Unless the coffee place has a wonderful vibe to it, it's best to have a seat, relax a bit, then get up and walk around the neighborhood, maybe even towards your place.

5) Devise a special drink that's not on the menu.

This is an additional trick to making the coffee date more memorable, and adds even more power to the location of a unique coffee shop. Go to the date spot in advance, and ask what "special" drinks they make that are not on the menu. It'll likely include espresso, a syrup combination, and soy. You can even concoct one yourself, but make sure you taste-test it first! Whenever you can order for both of you, you set the standard that you're the leading man in her life.

The key behind all these tactics is a healthy mix of logistics and creativity. You want your date to be always stimulated, and within reasonable distance of your apartment or house. If you follow the above tips, you will have coffee dates that your date will both really enjoy and desire to repeat.
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