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Is It Fun or Feel like Work Meeting Women? - Part I

Jun 17, 2008
Is meeting women feels like a WORK to you?

And how does it feel that despite of all the effort you're doing you're still not getting an inch closer to your goal?

READ ON if you answered YES those questions.

I'm not going to lie, the dating game can be quite frustrating.

You are interested in a woman that has a boyfriend.

You think everything is going great with a girl and she stops returning your calls.

Aside from the fact that as the guy you are the one that do everything in order to move things forward.

YOU have to have the courage to approach.

YOU have to keep the conversation going at first, YOU have to escalate physically, YOU have to get HER number or rack your brain to figure out a logistical way to take her home, YOU have to plan the date.

Not to mention there are much higher standards for men's behavior than women.

(Don't get me started on that...let's just say women are allowed to get away with sub-par behavior just because they are "pretty.")

That can be debilitating, especially if you don't have an "extroverted" trait.

...I just had a client who often complained of "extroversion fatigue."

I knew exactly what he meant because I used to struggle with it too.

Before I began to teach myself pickup, I would go out, and be mentally DRAINED after talking to three or four women.

What I do is to have a sit and rest!

I am working hard than I was in my full time job instead of having some fun and relax in those situation. Now you see how strange it is.

I would go home absolutely dead

... from having a CONVERSATION WITH WOMEN!

Does it make sense to you???

And there was the overall, general dating fatigue. The emotional ups and downs, the discouraging results, the effort I had to make just to get women to hang out with me or to sleep with me.

It is just like I am having an overtime in my full-time job!

When I first got in this game, I literally had to force myself to go out and pickup ALL DAY for days on end. (I admit, I was a nerd, and pushed it to the extreme.)

All I can say is that I have this passion in learning those stuff (very eager for the outcome after years of sensual frustration)

It's like a professional athletes that pushes themselves in the gym, that is how I pursue myself.

I was working muscles or to be more precise I was forming NEW NEUROPATHWAYS, that I had never used before

If you are working too hard in your interactions with women. then you can relate to any of this.
About the Author
Vin DiCarlo is a expert dating trainer, who's highly advance website DiCarlo DiClassified and see what he has to say about VH1's Mystery the Pick Up Artist show.
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