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When Is The Right Time To Use Compliments?

Jun 17, 2008
A major sticking point in a lot of guy's seduction game is knowing when the perfect time in your initial approach with a woman is as far as giving her that first compliment. If you use one too soon you can come across to her as being very needy for her approval of you.

But if you withhold any compliment to her at all, she will start to consider you as just a guy who wants to be friends with her and she might put you into the dreaded "friend zone" where you will never have any shot with her at all.

Complimenting a woman is an essential element of anyone's seduction game because they are very useful for rewarding a girl's good behavior towards you.

If you give a girl a compliment just because she is beautiful and you are trying to develop a rapport with her by using cheap compliments as a way to get her approval, you will again appear as very needy and supplicating to her beauty.

On some occasions a woman will not even take your compliments to them very well at all. For instance, have you ever heard this coming from a woman after you have complimented her hairstyle: "I just washed it and dried it like I usually do. No big deal."

This woman is downplaying your compliment to her about her hair because she feels that the only reason you told her that is because you want to get her into bed within a few hours.

Either you gave her this compliment way too early in your interaction with her or you gave her a generic compliment about her hairstyle without giving a good and specific reason her hairstyle is so attractive in the first place. But since she already gave you this negative and dismissing remark to you, let's see how you can still turn this negative into a positive.

BRING A POSITIVE OUTLOOK ON YOUR CONVERSATIONS WITH A WOMAN AND YOU WILL WIN EVERY SINGLE TIME!

When she gave you this dismissive kind of remark back to you in which she claimed to not have taken much time getting her hair to turn out so well, turn to her with a smile and say, "Yeah, your hair just naturally looks like it's ready for a cover shot on Vogue magazine. Lucky you."

She will usually laugh at that remark and she will realize that you are a guy who will not allow a woman to be dismissive about any comment you will be making to her in the future. You can also just give her this kind of compliment very quickly, making it sound like a side comment to another statement instead.

Try saying this to her, "Your hair is quite beautiful. Did you happen to see 'CSI' last night? I thought that was one of their best episodes of the year so far." When you say this kind of compliment to her and do not allow any response from her whatsoever, you really are taking control of your conversation with her and she will respect you for it.
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