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When Should I Call Her?

Jun 18, 2008
So you've gotten the number. Congratulations. Now you're wondering whether you should call her the next day, use the "two day rule" from Swingers, or make her wait even longer. Here are some guidelines to calling at the perfect time.

First of all, if you met her at a nightclub on a weekend night, you can call her an hour later. This may sound too needy on the face of it, but can actually work wonders for your game. Women have a tendency to forget guys they've recently met, especially if they've given their number out multiple times in a night (not uncommon), so a quick reminder is helpful. You can call on your way out of the club at 1:30 AM, saying "Oh my gosh, you will not believe what just happened!" (Be ready with a quick funny story). Keep the call short and bouncy.

If you met her at a bar, club, or other nightlife venue, you should call her within the next day. As special as we like to feel, chances are she gave her number to at least one other guy. When you call, you don't have to have much to say, but you do have to reestablish contact rather quickly. The next afternoon is probably the best time to call, as long as you aren't too overtly happy to hear her voice again.

The one time I would advise you wait two days is if you met her during a daytime pick-up. If you met her in line at a coffee shop, and got her number, or maybe had a good conversation at Borders, then she will remember you for a few days, because daytime connections don't happen very often for women.

Just make sure you don't wait a full three days or more without any contact whatsoever. If you can't find the time to call, at least send a text message. A good way to start a text message interaction is to send "Do you speak text?" (Credit to Sinn) This will keep the door open for you until you can call her and talk longer.

Now, sometimes she'll be out of town for a week and not be able to contact you. That's fine. If you had a decently long conversation with her (at least fifteen minutes), you should be imprinted in her memory enough that after your first voicemail message, she'll still remember you when you call again the next week.

If you follow these guidelines, you'll find that when a call a woman you've just met, she'll be happy to hear from you. She wouldn't be thinking "Oh, him again?" nor "Michael who? Who is this guy?" Now, what you'll actually say is another question altogether, but there is more information to be posted on that topic.
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