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The 3 Best Ways to Get a Woman's Number

Jun 19, 2008
You may prefer dance clubs, coffee shops, or sports bars, but getting girls is the same everywhere. If you want to see a woman again, you need her number. Of all the ways to ask for it, there are three that work best. Here are the top three:

1) Direct Demand

The most straightforward way to get to number is to simply say, "Give me your number." It works the best out of any straight verbal way of asking for it. If you've been talking to her long enough to have a connection, or she has to leave suddenly, whip the cell phone out and just say it, "Give me your number."

To make this tactic even better, there's a special variation you can use. Ask her a question that she can really talk about. In the middle of her answer, whip your cell phone out and say "Hang on, I have a text." She will hold onto her thought and be silent. Look at your cell phone for a few seconds and say "Give me your number, silly." It'll catch her off guard and she'll give it to you right there. (Credit to Mehow)

2) Have her suggest exchanging numbers

Another way to get the number is to say "So this was fun, how can we continue this?" Or "We should hang sometime, how can I get a hold of you?" If you made a good impression and were talking to her long enough to build a connection, she should say "Oh, take my number." If you didn't establish a solid connection, she'll likely say "Oh, you can find me here, I'm usually around." If that happens, don't push it. If she won't volunteer her number with obvious bait like that, she'll never return your calls either.

3) Set a date right there

This is far and away, the most solid way to hear from this woman again. Known often as a "time bridge," if you set a date for something fun with a woman you're talking to, the phone number is a simple logistical after thought. There's no reason not to give you the number if you already have plans.

The key with the time bridge is that it can't be for something simple like coffee or dinner. It has to be something she doesn't do very often, like going to the cove where the seals hang out, an extravagant dinner party, or a wild 80's bar. You don't have to actually take her to the place you "plan" on, but it's great bait to get the number. Then you can switch to taking her to coffee later on when you call her.

While it feels really important, getting the number is just a step in the dating interaction. Whether you want to get a woman in bed, or make her a girlfriend, you now have the tactics to get a solid number that leads to a woman calling back and showing up on dates. Now how long should you wait to call? That's another question we'll have an answer to soon, so check back.
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