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Using Directional Openers As A Way To Ease Anxiety

Jun 20, 2008
A lot of guys have extreme bouts with approach anxiety because they realize that they have no idea of how to calm themselves down and just act naturally around very hot women. But if they could just get out of their heads for a moment and concentrate instead on coming up with natural openers in which they ask girls for directions to specific areas, they would go much further in eradicating approach anxiety from their lives.

Directional openers are a very extreme example of the in-direct approach when it comes to opening women because most people get asked for directions by strangers every day. Just make sure that you are facing the woman in an angle to her body so that she will not assume you are coming on to her in any way whatsoever.

It's also good to make sure you are asking her for directions to a specific place that actually exists. In other words, stand at an angle about two feet away from a hot woman that you see on the street and say, "Hi. I was wondering where the zoo is located. It is close to here?"

This is where it is essential to demonstrate great body language to a woman. When you ask these directions to her and you give off the image of yourself as a strong and confidant man, she will give you signs of attraction right away, and then you can build some more questions after she has told you where the zoo is.

STRONG BODY LANGUAGE IS THE KEY TO SUCCESS

Guys with approach anxiety still retain that fear because they don't realize how important body language is when they first open a woman. If you are facing a girl, she is unconsciously realizing that you really like her. But if you stand sideways to her, you are indicating your lack of interest in her initially.

And when she does give you signs of affection like a huge smile, or she laughs at something funny you just said to her, now is the time to slightly turn in her direction as a reward for her good behavior.

By using this type of body language, you are gradually giving her indications that she is doing something right and that you are the superior person in the conversation because you just demonstrated that you are the one giving her rewards, and not the other way around.

But you also must not give her any control of the conversation, either. When she tries to say something like, "I've got to go visit my boyfriend right now, " you should turn your body away from her and say, "Are you bragging about that fact, or is he really an extremely rich guy or something?"

This should throw her for a loop as you are calling her out on making that kind of a statement to you in the first place. She will either let you continue the conversation the way it was going before she made that remark or she will say something like, "He's not rich, but I do like him an awful lot."

You can either quit talking to her altogether and just start looking for another hottie, or yu could say, "He doesn't sound too special to me. Maybe I could be a better boyfriend for you. But I do like nasty girls!"

She will either like that statement or she could get fed up with you and leave. You'll never know, but at least you tried. Approach anxiety can be overcome with general conversational skills in which you escalate the conversation to sexual banter if the girl is willing. If she's not, cut your losses and just say "Next!"
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