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Useful Mindsets in Dealing with Male Competition - II

Jun 24, 2008
Another thing that I want to talk about is the idea that the other guy can be more "dominant" than you are.

The concept of the alpha male is completely outdated. In the caveman days, the alpha male had real power - he had access to resources like food, and was physically stronger, so he could beat up competitors.

But ask yourself if those power still exist today. Every man can survive on his own if he has the source of income - you probably have an access to food and shelter if you're reading this. You're all set.

Plus, its illegal to use the physical strength just to beat people up. It is pretty much irrelevant to use in the modern world.

You'll always end up losing if you attack another person because the police always win.

If you think about it, you are LETTING RANDOM GUYS STOP YOU FOR NO REASON!

Pardon my French, but who is HE to say who YOU talk to???

It makes me mad- I recall all the women I missed out on because I was worried about some DUDE. And I get mad knowing that other guys are dealing with same crap!

You are going to look back on all the things you did and didn't do, when the time comes that you're on your deathbed. How painful it is to say "I haven't approached that girl because I was scared of another guy," or "I could have enjoyed being with so many beautiful women if only I have approached them even if they were TALKING to another guy."

I don't want you to be like that.

So let's analyze it deeply. You truly don't understand dominance if you are seeing the other guy as more dominant.

You see, you instantly consider yourself NOT dominant when you're concerned with who is more dominant. There's a better focus.

To be dominant, you must first THINK like a dominant man. And dominant men don't think about who is dominant. So what do dominant men think about? Whatever it is they are doing or want.

So you see another guy talking to a group of girls. Instead of worrying about whether or not he's more dominant than you, focus on the girls.

I rarely even acknowledge other guys, because too often it's proven to be a waste of time. 9 times out of 10 the girls don't even know the guy - they just met him.

Or if they do know the guy, it's because he was a friend of ONE of the girls, and the rest barely know him.

It's rare for girls to go out with a guy they are dating - usually they will bring a guy who is more of a protector/friend because a guy like that is more valuable when they go out on the town.

And aside from that, if he IS with one of the girls, then it will be a fair game because it means that he's NOT with the other girls.

You are NOT the alpha male by definition, if you are concerned with who's the alpha male is. In fact, in this modern world it's questionable whether alpha males truly exist .

Avoid some assumption, just get your focus in a USEFUL place, and don't allow some random dude to stop you from enjoying YOUR LIFE!
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