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Navigating the Jerky Waters of the First Date

Jun 26, 2008
Dating rules are all the same wherever and whatever place in the world you are. If this is the game you intend of winning in order for you to meet the amazing partner or the perfect paramour you have always dreamed of, all you have to do is believe in yourself that you can handle dating smoothly, and remember that first impression always lasts.

Confidence: Men would likely attract women if they are confident. If you do not have it, you have to act it. Women find this exceedingly sexy if you project the image of like knowing it all even if you do not.

Masculinity: Take delight in your masculine energy and make a woman feel relax during the date by organizing all the details. Wear something smart and comfortable.

Direct questions deserve straight answers: Ask the right questions that will make her open up and reveal herself. Listen to and show interest in what she says and compliment them. Respond with a nod, say uh-hum or yes or no at the right time.

Women just love romance: Give flowers on the first date; they find them romantic.

Be thoughtful: Small details do not pass unnoticed. Attend to her needs, make her feel comfortable, make sure she is not too hot nor too cold, offer a drink, etc.

No ogling: Though women love all the attention and feel like they are being admired, do not ogle. Just look at her as much as you can.

Getting to know each other: Take her to a bar or a restaurant that is not too noisy and expensive to have time to talk about yourselves. Maintain eye contact at all times and show her that you are sincere with every word you say.

Pay for her on the first date. As much as possible pay for her on the first date if you can afford it. You do not have to bring her in an expensive restaurant, a bistro will do or a cozy coffee house where you can sit and talk. A walk in the park is often romantic while you enjoy the view and have fun as you make your tour around.

Women can be fetish: In terms of charm, women tend to look at shoes, fingernails, dainty looks and style. If you reflect the right image, then you can be bewitching.

Smell: Women often talk about how men smell, and this creates a lasting impression. It does not necessarily mean an expensive perfume or bathing yourself in perfume; but it can be an after-shave or just be well groomed inside out.

Dating is fun and exciting. It is an art in itself; and since it is an art, it also requires knowledge and techniques. It involves effective seduction that she would enjoy. It also involves attraction in such a way to incite the person to draw towards you. Dating is a step to making and finding lovers, if not a good friend.
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Rodrigo Rehn is a Linux Systems Administrator, Web Programmer, PHP Developer and CEO of FaceRomance free online dating.
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