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Learn How to Make e-Relationships Work

Jun 26, 2008
Dating sites...so many people...single with nothing to do, bored and miserable, maybe. You are browsing and you need someone to talk to, what questions would you ask? Or would you ask yourself if they can change your life for better? Would you allow that person change your life? How far are you willing to go?

The answers depend on you if you have the courage to let an online relationship develop and change in a normal healthy relationship.

Do online relationships really work? The answer is yes, and it can change your entire life for better and forever; although, there may be some debacles or mistakes that can put an end to the relationship between two people that could have had a good future together. So keep these things in mind:

Do not take people for granted. If you do not take them seriously, you will be treated the same way.

Being too secretive and restrictive will not give way for a relationship to develop and grow. If you do not say anything about yourself, nobody will.

Just like any relationships, trust or lack of trust is a great deterrent. There are many ways to check if a person is worthy. In online dating and relationships, everything is bound by trust. No one would be wasting his or her time finding a potential partner in a dating site if it does not serve the purpose.

Express yourself well and do not be shy if you are interested in someone. Speak your mind and let the person know how you feel.

If fear of disappointment or becoming a victim of someone with bad intentions befall you, then it would be easy to stay away from that person. Learn how to read the signals and do some more probing if you are in doubt.

Being skeptical about e-relationship becoming more than what it is will get you nowhere. The rule is: Whatever you give, that is exactly what you get and even much more if you believe.

Make the person feel important even if you met him/her online. The relationship is no different than the real-life situation. If you become fond of each other, prioritize and treat him/her special in your life; otherwise, you will end up losing the person.

If both of you feel that talking online becomes boring, then initialize the next step in knowing the person more, exchange phone numbers. Maybe each time to hear each others voice now. This also prepares you for the next step, meeting each other in person.

Never be pretentious. Being somebody that you are not will end any relationship. Be sincere and be honest right from the very start. You never know what happens next. You might just have met the match of your life and not being truthful is a stupid mistake.

Problems are normal for couples online or offline. The effort to solve them together is healthy. Every human is unique, so if it happens that you lose that person after trying everything, then you lose him for good.

Are not you glad that the Internet technology had given you the chance to meet your match online? So dos not waste it.
About the Author
Rodrigo Rehn is a Linux Systems Administrator, Web Programmer, PHP Developer and CEO of FaceRomance free online dating.
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