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5 Helpful Tips to Win Your Ex Back

Jul 2, 2008
In the time immediately following a rough breakup, it can be easy to fall apart. Here are 5 tips to help you get through this time, and not only survive but come out on top...even with your ex back at your side.

1. Life goes on, and letting it pass you by will just put in an even worse position than where you are. No matter how you feel, you need to keep living your life. Do things that you enjoy, it'll do you a lot of good.

2. Too many people seem to feel that drugs or alcohol are an easy way out from the pain, but in truth it's just an escape that can damage you more than help you. Find healthy ways to deal with your broken heart...seek help in your friends and family, or things you enjoy.

3. Avoid contact with your ex for roughly a month. Being together right now would just open up opportunities to make it worse, so take some time to clear your head and let your ex do the same. When you pick it back up, you'll be in better shape to make the right decisions.

4. Go by your head, not your heart. Emotional turmoil like this can lead you astray where your mind knows you shouldn't go. Trust in a solid plan, not in whatever your first impulses are.

5. Even though it's 95% likely that your relationship is completely fixable, you may have to be prepared for the possibility that you and your ex may not be destined for one another. By all means, do your best to get him back and it's very likely you will, but you may need to accept such a possibility and be ready to move on if you have to.

These 5 words of advice should help you a lot in getting through this time and coming out successfully living your life, but only if you heed what they say. Remember this information, and you should have a lot simpler time surviving this breakup.

The smartest and best choice is to make sure you have a plan built for when you actively pursue your ex again after that month of no contact. Winging it is just going to dig you in deeper as most of this is confusing stuff that doesn't seem to make much sense. Having everything planned out through an underlying strategy will help you immensely.
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