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Want to Win Your Girlfriend Back? Pace Yourself

Jul 12, 2008
Everyone makes mistakes. Some are plans gone bad while others are complete accidents. Forgetting to pay the electric bill barely impacts our lives at all. Causing your girlfriend to leave you can change your life for good.

If you want her back, mourning over your loss will not help. Instead, you need to be taking action, the right action, starting now to get your ex back. This calls for the right pacing and finesse to pull off. The following tips will touch on this.

1.) Don't stick your head in the sand expecting the dispute to resolve itself. This sort of passiveness will surely allow the bad feelings about the breakup to cool off, but if you continue to do nothing, then nothing will happen. Anything worth getting is worth working for. If you want to get your ex back, you will have to put in the effort and do something about it.

2.) Be careful about going too fast or pushing too hard. Don't treat this as a battle to be won. Rather, you should take a long term view and realize that getting your ex back will take time.

You'll have to slowly draw her back into your life. An injury will need some time to heal. Time is also needed to heal a broken relationship. The breakup was stressful enough, no need to create more stress.

3.) How much pressure do you employ to coax her? Answer: none. The idea here is not to drive her back into the relationship, rather you would like to draw her back. Enticement is the key.

You'll need to accept responsibility for and correct whatever fault was yours for the breakup. You want her to see you as a new man who has bettered himself. This will require that she see in you a whole new level of maturity.

4.) You have to know when to stop. You need to take the hint if she's continually rejected you over time. If she has remarried, you will have to stop. Further persistence on your part classifies you as a stalker. If you feel compelled to continue in spite of this, you should seek professional help.

What you do immediately after a breakup with your girl will determine how to hard getting back with her will be. Time it wrong or bring up the wrong subject with her and you'll have made it very difficult if not impossible to bring her back. Use your head and make an effort to plan out what you'll do.
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