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Want to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back? Pace Yourself

Jul 14, 2008
Everyone makes mistakes. Some are plans gone bad while others are complete accidents. Forgetting to pay the electric bill barely impacts our lives at all. Causing your girlfriend to leave you can change your life for good.

Crying over your loss will not get her back. Starting now, you should take the right action to bring your girlfriend back. This means pacing things properly and using a good deal of finesse. The following tips will deal with this.

1.) Expecting the dispute to fix itself is wishful thinking. This kind of passivity will certainly allow the angry feelings to cool off, but nothing will ever happen if you don't act. Your relationship is worth working for. In order to get your girl back, you'll have to put in the effort and then put in more.

2.) Moving too fast or pressing too hard will only make things worse. Don't try to attack this head on as if it were a battle. Instead you'll need to take a more deliberate and measured approach which will take some time.

Care is required to bring her back gradually. A wound will not heal overnight. The same can be said of repairing a wounded relationship. Adding more stress to a stressful situation will not help.

3.) How much pressure do you employ to coax her? Answer: none. The idea here is not to drive her back into the relationship, rather you would like to draw her back. Enticement is the key.

You will have to examine and correct whatever responsibility you had for the separation. When you approach her you'll want to be seen as a new man. This means demonstrating a level of maturity that she's never seen in you before.

4.) Knowing when to stop is very important. If she's been rejecting you for a very long time and her life has definitely moved on, you should take the hint. This is especially true if she has remarried. Continued persistence on your part makes you a stalker. If you can't bring yourself to stop, then you should consider seeking some professional help.

Your actions after the breakup will decide whether or not you'll be able to get her back into your life. Everything will hinge on the proper actions and the correct timing of those actions. Stay cool, make a plan, and act on it.
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