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The Way That You Act Tells Your Date Everything about You

Jul 15, 2008
Although it may seem quite simple, especially in the world of dating, I assure you it is not as easy as it seems. Almost everyone has had at least one date with someone who was hell bent on every negative part of their life and felt that they needed to share every detail.

It doesn't matter if this person was dripping in sexiness and was nothing short of a ten in the looks category. Looks can really only get you so far and relationships that fall short of real attraction barely ever succeed.

Yes, one date can tell so much about you, how you live, how you work, and often what type of lover you will be too. If you are seeking a relationship and at the same time implementing the law of attraction you will be able to only focus on good things, the good parts of dating by just being excited to meet someone new.

Think of some of the negative things that you could say or focus on that might give your date a bad first impression. Now these are things that speak volumes and would not be coming out of your mouth if you were using the law of attraction. Talking about past dates at all but especially in a negative manner, how much you dislike your job, whining about getting up early the next day, being cheap, being overly aggressive, etc. Not many girls are going to enjoy this and are going to think that you are cheap and lazy.

You would not be speaking and acting this way if you were focusing on how great it was to be out with someone new, finding out a little about them and what they like to do.

Just being grateful for the moments of that evening and that is what will get you a next date card. Think all positive and nothing negative and see how far it is going to get you!

One of the major components of the law of attraction is that you get out what you give in. So if you want a good mate, you need to be a good person. If you want someone that is kind, be kind yourself. If you want someone with a sense of humor, develop one yourself.

People can sense what type of person you are and will either be attracted to you, turned off by you and indifferent. If you are looking for a partner, you will obviously want to attract people to you. Make sure that you attract the right kind of people. To help you do this, you need to become the right person.

So think long and hard about what you want and then figure out ways that you can become that same type of person. At the very least, you will begin turning into the kind of person that you can be proud of. If you are fortunate, you will end up meeting that same type of person and hopefully can begin to make a like with them. If things arent working out for you in the love department, consider yourself. Are you someone that you would like to date if you were being objective? If not change and become that person.
About the Author
Ron McDiarmid is one of the world's most successful personal development coaches. Find out how you can attract your soul mate by learning singles dating techniques http://www.singlesandtheuniverse.com
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