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Extramarital Affair - Where and When is He Doing it?

Jul 16, 2008
You believe your partner is having extramarital affair with someone else, but there is just no proof to justify that - and you don't know how to find that proof.

You just want to find out - and if you just know how...

Before you go any further though, realise that who he is cheating with might not be as important as looking for a solution in the first place. That other woman may just take a role of 'the other woman' or the role of 'his escape' from the marriage problem HE may be having.

With that in mind though, no one can decide whether or not you should find out more information about his extramarital affair. If you want to find out, read on.

1. The Other Woman

I have put this first in the list as once you have a good guess on who the other woman he is having the extramarital affair with, it is a little easier for you to find out other clues such as where and when the meeting actually take place.

This is how you would find out.

Try to jot down a list of names - female names that he has mentioned in the past few weeks or recently. There won't be many names. Also, since normally affair is unplanned in the beginning, he would have mentioned that name in conversation before.

The third party more often than not has things in common with the cheating spouse - enough to get him into infatuation.

Tips: It is good if you are calm and act 'dumb' - so that he doesn't know you are suspecting anything. This will definitely make him make more mistakes such as saying her name even more times than he should - bring her into conversations even more.

2. What are they doing?

As you would have guessed, they would do things you wouldn't want to know about. But beside that, there must also be some other things they do - the things they have in common. Usually this is something that he doesn't have the opportunity to do with you.

This can be anything that you can think of - even including watching the footy in the stadium. If he and the other woman work in the same company, that can also be their common grounds.

3. Where does it take place?

You should know him well enough to know what he enjoys doing. You should be able to guess where those activities take place easily. For example, you should know where he can do horse riding or motorbiking around your area - with the other woman. Also, don't be surprised if he meets her in your own area - very close to you as it is somewhere you wouldn't have suspected.

He can also meet her around their workplace if they work together.

4. When is it?

Some women would ask me now: "If he dares to do it in MY OWN place - I live with him, WHEN?" especially if you're hardly on holidays.

If he hasn't been doing it, you'll notice soon he will ask you many questions around your schedule - or if he doesn't, he probably already knows your schedule off by heart. If he lives with you for a while now, he would have a good idea as well which ones of your schedule will be fixed, and which ones are 'tentative'.

Whether you like it or not, you will have fixed schedule such as 'working late every Wednesday night' or 'Go out with the girls every Thursday night'. Some of them you just cannot get out of and he will use this very time to meet his significant other.
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Having this tip should hopefully help you to catch a cheating spouse. Check out cheating-spouse-alert.com to get much more tip on how to catch cheating spouse - red handed hopefully. By: Sally Webb.
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