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Dating Tips: Attracting a "10

Jul 17, 2008
If you are interested in meeting, attracting and keeping a "10", then you should read this letter.

But first off, let go waaay back...

It was in my high school, that there was a girl in my class who was seems so perfect.

She was intelligent, cool, and so beautiful that it was hard to look at her (and yet I couldn't stop my eyes looking)...

She was one of the popular kids in school but was so nice and friendly to everyone.

We talked occasionally, and looking back I realize we were flirting (I was too stupid to realize at the time).

I wanted to ask her to senior prom so badly...but I chickened out at the last minute.

It was a few years later that I realized that the girl had a crushed on me all the senior year.

I've talked to a lot of guys and this experience seems pretty common, there was this ONE SPECIAL GIRL who you crushed on from afar, or you missed an opportunity with her, or she broke your heart...

Ah, the elusive "10," the perfect girl that every guy wants but never seems to attain.

I have a lot to say about the concept of "10's," In deeper sense they are another "breed" of women, but it is on the way they think that makes them so.

Understanding your own fascination with female perfection, and understanding the reality of extremely beautiful women will help you resolve this conundrum, and maybe help you find that "perfect girl" for yourself.

First of all, "10" is just a myth. No human being can be considered as perfect. You CANNOT say that a woman who looks prettier than the women is more "valuable".

The woman that is perfect for you is the one who can turns you on and have a great chemistry with you. That is the only true "10".

Following this reasoning, the world is full of 10's, given you have the skills to meet a lot of women and create options for yourself.

Treating a woman differently than other women just because she is prettier is a recipe for failure.

Why?

Because a lot of guys do that.

The girl knows what you are about and she sees you as a shallow guy.

But there definitely are certain women that seem on another "level" of beauty than the rest. These women get treated much differently than other women.

You need to understand this so that you will know how to treat these types of women.

As I've said, you shouldn't treat women "differently."

Let me clear this up.

You shouldn't treat a woman BETTER than the other women. But there are things that you need to know.

First, she don't like a guy that chases her for her looks alone.

A woman wants to be appreciated for her personality above anything else.

Now for your own sake I'm going to give you a heads up.

The so-called "10's" has two different types.

The high self-esteem, and the low self-esteem.

The common type is the low self-esteem 10's. The women that belongs to this group are used to being wanted for their looks and they know that they didn't EARN an attention, so they have a guilt complex.

In fact, most of their lives they've probably coasted, and are complete dumbasses.

It may sound harsh but I call it like that.

These women will respond to jerk behavior. They take away and flip out their validation will and do anything to get it back.

Anything.

(As a side, these girls usually suck in bed and are total head cases when you get involved with them.)

On the other hand, the high self-esteem 10's women have had a taste of elite- they know early from the start that high levels of society were attainable to them, and they work hard to be successful, intelligent, and make the most of their lives.

They know that they can get closer to a great life than everyone else, and they are motivated to put a lot of hard work to attain that.

Usually these women have good attitudes, are intelligent, have a direction in life and have lots of interests beyond being clubbing.

In fact, most of beautiful women I've dated didn't go to the club. They just spend their nights being with their families, reading, or having a nice dinner with friends (or studying if they were in college).

One of the interesting thing about this types of women are that they are single for long periods of time while in-between boyfriends. Why?

It is because they have high standards for themselves, and this makes most men either too intimidated to ask them out, or act too needy and pathetic around them, it's rare that they meet another man who is on their level.

But here's the good news. You will find these women the easiest to attract when you understand The Attraction Code.

The Attraction Code is about being a "male 10," the best man you can be.

When you start to embody the Attraction Code you will surely notice an interesting thing.

There is an Auto-Rejection Mechanism that I call where some women will try to protect themselves from being rejected by you, by rejecting YOU first. This is where you'll get odd responses from less attractive women - they will occasionally be rude to you because they know they're not on your level.

But the most attractive, cool women will respond much differently...you'll be amazed to see the most beautiful women warm right up to you as soon as you approach - whether on the street or in the bar - because they can see that you are on their "level."

The woman will thinks "finally, a guy who can hang with me; he's confident and treats me like a real person. And he's the only guy who's actually tried to talk to me today, instead of whistling from his car."

The Attraction Code is meant for these kinds of women. Of course you'll also enjoy plenty of "adventures" with all kinds of women, but ultimately this is about having the option of dating the hottest, highest quality women.

There are plenty of 10's out there waiting for you.

Don't spend another year missing something that you could've been enjoying right now.

Vin
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