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The Answers to Why Men Cheat - You Can Stop It Before it Happens

Jul 18, 2008
Infidelity is such a big part in society that sometimes we just need to take a step back and explore why men cheat in the first place. This is important to prevent things like this to happen in your marriage or relationship.

I have been asked many times why women have to be the ones to figure out why men cheat, not the other way around? The answer is simply because men are not trained to work on relationships as much as women.

Men would rather think and work on other things - they do not see the need to boil down the reason why they cheat on their partner.

But solving the root cause is quite important and since you are now reading this article, it becomes your responsibility to prevent it from happening - keep him to yourself girl!

In this article I would discuss the four major reasons why men cheat. This is exactly what you need to know to hopefully save yourself from possible future heartbreak from an early stage.

First one is the most common one in any course of relationship: The excitement seems to have left it dull.

A relationship will suffer this 'dullness' stage as soon as it passes the initial infatuation rush of chemistry. That is why in any case people should work on their relationship by keeping the excitement alive. Do different things together, because no matter how unfair it is for men to cheat because of this reason, it happens.

Lots of Fights and Issues - A little bit of argument can keep a relationship healthy, too much is never good.

Women are known to be drama queens. They bring up issues in relationships in such a dramatic ways even if there is no reason to. This makes a man's mind really tired and as a result he would look for some relaxing time somewhere else - whether it is with his friends or someone else.

Another reason is when both parties are so different. One person wants to go to the mountain whereas the other prefers to go to the beach.

Two people with different needs and wants should add spice to the relationship. However, if no one bounds to tolerate with the other once in a while things can turn sour. It is true you can have other friends to fulfil your needs.

However you cannot rely on other friends all the time to accompany you in doing things you enjoy, because it does lead to one major reason why people cheat.

Temporary 'Grass is greener on the other side'.

I'm sure you've heard of people just not being appreciative enough of what they already have. Men are like this too, especially when the women in their life seem to give them no challenge whatsoever.

There is simply nothing else to explore. At the very least, it seems like there is just nothing else to explore. This makes the grass on the other side i.e. other woman seems more exciting.
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Author: Sally Webb, Editor of Cheating Spouse Alert.com. Find more FREE tips on infidelity and extramarital affair.

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