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The Importance of Keeping the Attraction within a Marriage

Jul 18, 2008
It feels great and you may never think those feelings will fade; nothing could put out that fire! Well friend, nothing will put that fire out faster than a couple of kids and a stack of bills.

Throw a mortgage into that pile and a little bit of overtime and you have just smoldered that passion and blushed feeling into a heap of ash.

At this point your choices might be a bit limited, what are you going to do, change lovers every year, live miserable always envying what everyone else has or are you going to get off of your butt and make something happen? Tired, busy, or lacking energy, not acceptable! You are not trying to pencil in sex at this point but rather pencil in some romance and passion.

If it leads to sex then great but if you create a setting for sex it is going to be short and quick and you will have missed the whole concept which is to interact, enjoy each other, and remember it is usually a lot harder to stimulate the mind than it is to stimulate the genitals.

You can create the marriage of your dreams. Do you want a marriage that is filled with passion, unconditional love, excitement, and fun? Are you tired of focusing so much energy on your marriage and how to make it right?

Sexual activity can be marvellous for any couple but it can also induce a lot of tension particularly for those couples that are scrambling to continue some steam in the bedroom and to relish the gratification that they should be getting from sexual activity. Often this is due to a lack of accepting a confident body image.

It is a recognised fact that bearing a positive body will meliorate intimacy and passion. People who perceive themselves as unattractive are much more expected to have a drop in sexual want or activity. Therefore, wouldn't it only make sense that bettering ones body image would increase sexual desire?

The Law of Attraction lets you use more energy with the help of free will to focus on what you want rather than focusing on any problems. The Law of Attraction says that you get what you focus or vibrate on.

So if you sit at work all day and focus on the negative in your marriage or what your spouse did not do by the time you get with your spouse you won't have anything nice to say because you allowed yourself to get angry and therefore attracted anger.

Sex can be fantastic for any couple but it can also cause a lot of stress especially for those couples that are struggling to keep some steam in the bedroom and to enjoy the satisfaction that they should be getting from sex.

Often this is due to a lack of having a positive body image. It is a known fact that having a positive body will improve intimacy and passion.

People who perceive themselves as unattractive are much more likely to have a drop in sexual desire or activity. Therefore, wouldn't it only make sense that improving ones body image would increase sexual desire?

The more you focus on what you desire, the more you attract what you desire. Make a valid effort every day to take actions that will be in check with the energy of the life you imagine but it has to be one that comes from within your soul.
About the Author
Ron McDiarmid is one of the worlds most successful personal development coaches. Find out how you can attract your soul mate by learning the single dating techniques http://www.singlesandtheuniverse.com
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