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Helping Lonely Hearts via e-Mail

Jul 20, 2008
The numbers of online daters looking for love is increasing. Bringing with it the challenges of frustration and disenchantment with the online dating process. Most people are not meeting the right people or even worse, they're not getting any results at all. Many are turning to Online Dating Coach, Chaszey Sandhriel.

"The reason most people are not getting the results they desire is because their profile is a contradiction to who they truly are and what they are truly looking for in a partner. They desire one thing and communicate another," says Chaszey. She adds: "Internet dating starts with a profile that stands out and projects strength because it puts your most authentic Self forward and because you accurately describe who you are looking for in a life partner."

In order to create a successful profile, start with these three tips:

1. A successful screen name When we first create our screen names we forget that the screen name we choose communicates poems, or not, to people who will be looking at our profile. Screen names like "TiredofmyJob," "WhoseYourDaddy," "WorshipMe" will not get you the results that you're looking for, no matter how great your personal profile reads. Pick a screen name where people cannot read between the lines trying to figure out what you're trying to communicate with it.

2. The right photos "It never amazes to see the type of pictures people put on the Internet. Little do they realize that these pictures are leaving a first impression," says Chaszey. By all means do not put pictures up in which you wear glasses and a hat displaying your favorite football team, all while having two dead fish hanging from your arms. Reserve these proud photos for your poker night out with your buddies. Pictures that work show your eyes and show your face clearly; and you show a variety of photos ranging from headshots to full body shots (no matter what you look like).

3. Your profile Be clear, honest and fair when describing yourself There is no need to deceive anyone by hiding your full figured self from your audience. It is only a matter of time until you have to show up in person, at which time your true self will be in full view. So don't try to hide who you are. Never lie about things such as your age, how much you earn or what you do for a living. How do you expect to find the love of your life when you start off deceiving the whole world around you by your mere profile? Be honest, be authentic, be your Self. You're beautiful and gorgeous and handsome and successful just the way you are.

4. Clearly describe the partner you want to attract Everyone wants a "good woman" or a "great guy" but this doesn't mean that your profile needs to sound like you're looking for a Stepford wife or Prince Charming. Too many adjectives can result in people tuning out about what you're really looking for. Perhaps you may want to try to describe how this person makes you feel or what you as a couple would do together. Write this part as if you're talking to her or him directly.

Chaszey Sandhriel is Your Online Dating Coach and helps Online Daters create sizzling results. You can visit her at www.YourOnlineDatingCoach.com or call her at 415.419.7952.
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Before you make public your profile, visit Chaszey's website for additional pointers that will help you get amazing results. Or better yet, work with her directly and let her guide you through this exiting and fun journey.
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