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Marriage Boredom? Learn How to Spice it up!

Jul 20, 2008
The desire to keep the fire burning in a marriage must be present in both the partners and they must try to make things exciting everyday. Ending of a marriage must only be taken as a last resort.

If you consider the positive angle of such a proposal, it will really enrich your love life and your life in general.

Read on for some valuable tips. Four easy suggestions are provided for you to solve your bedroom problems forever.

Some amount of foreplay is necessary to create the right atmosphere.

Sex without some foreplay causes a relationship to become abrasive. As the finer elements of love do not get an opportunity to grow it finally gets obliterated. Many couples only concentrate on their sex life and ignore the importance of camaraderie in their relationship.

Such marriages do not last. Sex should be the least important factor when you are thinking of building up a long term relationship. If you and your partner don't already engage in foreplay, start doing so. Remember that foreplay doesn't have to start in the bedroom. Indulge in romantic thoughts and pass them on to your mate to keep the fire burning all the time.

Be Spontaneous

Do not make the mistake of directly discussing about sex even when you feel like it. Gradually lead your partner step by step towards it. Asking first can make being intimate seem more like a chore than something that should bring you pleasure.

The next time that you want to move to the bedroom, don't ask first, just lead your partner there. In fact, who needs a bedroom? Why make things sordid by talking about sex when you can enjoy the pleasures naturally.

Share your secret quirks with your partner. It will lead to a smoother sex life.

One of the biggest reasons why couples have problems with sex is because one person isn't having their desires fulfilled. It is important that each partner knows about the sexual needs of the other. Or else he/she has to be categorically told.

If you want novelty in sex, tell your partner what you want to try out. In addition to expressing your wants, needs, and darkest fantasies so be sure to let your partner do the same. Remember that both of you should walk away from an intimate encounter feeling happy.

Turn your bedroom into a lab and conduct sexual experiments!

Add some spice to your sex life. Carry out experiments in the bedroom. If you are willing to have a go, the possibilities will surprise you. This way you will derive not only extra pleasure but also fun and excitement. Besides the extra pleasure, the fun and excitement will act as a bonus.

You can use toys, and videos etc to conduct experiments in the bedroom. Carrying out experiments should not kill the harmonious atmosphere of your bedroom. It may be a wise decision to first discuss making changes with your partner, as you will not want to make him or her feel uncomfortable.
About the Author
Mercedez George is a Lifestyle Writer: If you just had a wedding, your relationship may be super. If however you have been married and your relationship is dead, or you may be on the verge of divorce, Visit our marriage site and have no fear.
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