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The Signs of A Cheating Boyfriend You Don't Want to Overlook

Jul 21, 2008
There are some experiences that human beings are better off not having the privilege of experiencing. Being cheated on is one of them.

In this world of uncertainty and the recent precipitous dive in "family values", a cheater can find refuge in the anonymity of numbers. Shocking numbers!

Did you know that about fifty percent of relationships are victim to the infidelity virus. Seem a little high to you, well, it did to me too. I had to look into this more, so I did some more research and found it was true. But even more shocking, was that so many people just live with the cheating and don't do anything about it.

You've found this article, so you're already ahead of the curve. This is a huge step as it means that we share the same common trait that empower us women; the power to take action and not let bad things happen to us. We have dignity and self esteem, making us untouchable to the emotional damage a cheating boyfriend may try to bestow upon us.

As humans, many times we have the evidence right in front of us but we refuse to see it. Eventually, we let things go so long that it becomes part of normal life, a miserable one.

This is one of those moments in your life where you have to decide to take action or sit on the sidelines. As humans our fear kicks in when we are faced with the choice to find out information that we know we don't want to know. It's like being called into the bosses office and you don't know why. That fear comes over you and then you find out...hey, this isn't so bad.

TAKE CHARGE! This is the only life you get. You have the power (at least you did at one time). Take control again, regain your confidence and begin living your life again.

- Rolling in at 6:00 am is more than a long days work. It's a long night of thinking how he is going to explain to you where he's been all this time.

- Your Boyfriend lacks that raging libido that once was on the verge of excessive.

- History has a habit of repeating itself. Check your boyfriends relationship history. Look for both consistencies and inconsistencies. And if he does have a historydon't count on him changing, Trust me.

- Are you being avoided? Has that sparkle in his eye morphed into an unwarranted distant gaze? This is what I like to call Ducking Behavior.

- Hair evidence. Found any hair lately that doesn't quite match any hair that should be in your man's radius? This is another one of those signs of a cheating boyfriend that is taken for granted.

- Paper Trail. Yes, conduct this step "Watergate Style". Have you noticed any recent purchases from your favorite jewelry store, waited as all of the relevant gift giving holidays have passed and no gift?

- How about that email account? Better yet how about that computer? Anything look different? Cleaned up? Locked? Questionable MySpace surprises? Just got that intuition us women often get?

- This is an obvious one, the easiest one to catch, but the most overlooked. It's simple, if he won't let you see his phone or gets nervous when you look at ityou know it's time to do some investigating.

- Do you find inconsistency in his stories and his friend's stories. Men aren't the best at communicating to begin with, try getting them to tell the same lie in perfect unison

- Do you feel like you are trying to preserve something and constantly chasing a fading memory of happiness? Has everything changed? It is always possible your man has evolved into an even bigger jackass and there is nothing else to it! On the other hand maybe there is!! In either case, signs of a cheating boyfriend or not, it's time to move on.

Remember, we still have to build a solid case before we make any attempt at questioning your suspected cheating boyfriend. This will only hurt our chances of gathering concrete evidence! As women, we often think we have plenty of evidence, yet since we cannot predict how our suspected boyfriend will answer, we must be prepared to answer his every excuse with a fact. Remember, he can't deny anything, once you have solid proof!
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