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Three Tips for Attracting Women That You Really Want

Jul 22, 2008
Over the years I've seen many guys fail in dating the women that they desire. It really didn't matter if they were rich, good looking, or smart. While many people might think those characteristics would allow a guy to succeed, the truth is that those aren't required.

Here's the truth. Improve on these and you'll be up a notch!

Get At Least 8 Hours of Good Sleep

I started to pick up women hardcore while I was in college. I could remember the times when I didn't want to even talk to women. Those were the times when I didn't feel or look good. I recall having dark rings under my eyes and I kept on making excuses for myself. Many of those times could have been avoided by getting more sleep.

It's very true. When you get plenty of sleep, you look better. Besides that, you'll be doing yourself a favor by getting "regular" sleep. Your health counts on it.

Respect Yourself More

Do you respect yourself? Unfortunately, most of the guys that I've coached don't love themselves enough. When you're putting time and effort into another person instead of yourself, there's a problem. You might think that it's selfish to care for yourself. That's not what this about.

The more that you respect yourself, the more that you'll realize that a woman is just a human being. While she may look beautiful, she may have many faults as well. No woman should be put on a pedestal.

Have Something to Offer by Building Your Self-Worth

Another poor thing that I see is that guys don't feel good about themselves because they feel inferior. The sad thing is that many of them don't have anything to offer. This might have been because of low self-confidence, poor social skills, being selfish, or a combination of all of the above.

Most single guys are so entangled in their own world. They're at home reading comic books, playing video games, and doing stuff that most beautiful women couldn't care much about. While some girls like those kinds of things, the question is, what do you have to offer of importance. Once you know, you'll be able to radiate it through self-confidence.

Now It's Time For You To Execute the Plan

If you thought that I was going to discuss some special dating gimmick, sorry to disappoint you. While those might be helpful, what I've mentioned are essential things that many single guys miss. After teaching for over a decade now, I've seen these things lessen the chances of success with dating.

If you truly want to attract the women of your dreams, you'll have to approach things strategically. This isn't just about how you interact with women. It's more about how you interact with yourself.
About the Author
Charles Cruz is a dating coach and runs a website called DatingFastTrack.com. You can subscribe to his FREE dating newsletter to learn how to approach women and more.
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