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Fixing The Problems Of Life

Jul 25, 2008
Sometimes, we all can have those problems which come into our lives; it seems at the wrong time. These problems could be with finances, relationships, health or all at the same time. Suddenly we feel as though the weight of the world is on our shoulders. So, how do we cope, and turn the negatives into positives?

Some people put such problems down to a bad streak of luck, and in the middle of it all, that is how it can seem. The world collapsing all around us, and we start to question if God will come to the rescue.

A lost job can devastate people, especially those who have had a stable job for years. And this equally applies to those on welfare who wonder if they will ever be able to be productive citizens to society.

A lost relationship or one that has gone sour can literally devastate people's lives. At the time they can seem insurmountable. They can literally ruin the persons career and other aspects of there lives.

Life is an intricate thing indeed. And it all rests on health, relationships, then career, and then finances. When a balance gets out of balance, it can cause problems in all areas. So, how are you to cope when such a balance goes out of balance and the luck of the world seems to escape us?

It all rests at that point of adversity on our character, our base qualities which enable us to get up and go forward. What must be realized is that every problem comes with a solution, and though at the time it may not seem apparent, they are there, just waiting for us to find them.

I believe life is growth, and from what I have seen; those that grow from the challenge, have much better things in store. A person who loses there job may find around the corner, an opportunity that allows them to grow further. And each time we grow we face new problems. Hay, that is life. But, in the moment of adversity it may not seem so.

The solution first then becomes to get out of the problem, and get out of the box. This can happen by simple things such as removing that depressing music, and find something more uplifting. It maybe to go shopping or do something you really love.

Think of all the good times. Life is never totally rosy. There will be times when we forget about time, and life seems to flow, while at other times we are having the best times of our lives. And here is where you want to dwell when facing problems. You want to remember the positive, and then consider what is next for you.

Change comes when you change. And when you can find a new vision that excites you, and go towards it, those problems will seem like they are in the past. Like a meal you ate a week ago may not even be remembered, such problems with go in such direction, while allowing you to move forward and grow.

Points to remember:
* Life is like yin and yang - sometimes great, sometimes bad
* Life will be how you see it - if you are negative, you will only see negative, likewise being positive will show you a positive life
* Life is growth - problems that keep repeating themselves means we are not growing, so start to grow
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